As a young adult, APPLY.
A lot of opportunities are open to people between 21–35.
Take the risk. Apply. Detach from the outcome.
You just need one opportunity to change your life.
If you’re between 25-35 and you have no stable source of income, you really need to sit yourself down and figure things out. You can’t keep calling people every time you need urgent money or waiting for someone to rescue you. Life is getting too expensive for that.
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
i’m learning to pray about everything fr. my attitude, my emotions, my overthinking, my healing, my habits, the people i attract, my lack of motivation sometimes… all of it. i give it to God because i know i can’t carry everything on my own.
Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
Every woman needs a season where nobody knows what she’s doing. Not her ex. Not her friends. Not social media. Just her, God, and the plan. Some blessings grow better in silence, and everybody don’t deserve access to the version of you that’s still being built.
Sometimes you gotta remind people... I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
No primary care drs , no dentist, no my charts, no life insurance, no 401k , no Roth IRA, no type of credit, no debit card, no real bank account…. Just rentals, lemon drops, purses and jewelry 😭 OK !!!
Getting yo shit together requires a deep level of honesty with yourself, you gotta be able to look at yourself in the mirror & be willing to accept flaws & behavior that's not allowing you to grow , self evaluation is difficult but it's extremely necessary.