that person basically going “yeah i kissed hjs hand without his permission but it’s literally ok because he didn’t say no and came back later” and not hearing themselves is hella worrying… ure looking at his reaction to validate what u did and not that what u did was WRONG.
hyunjin is so incredibly kind, please stop touching him in disgusting and inappropriate ways and respect him, that's sexual harassment ! he doesn’t even know you like who are you to him? you’re just a fan, nothing more! why do you cross boundaries with him or with any member?
just because he doesn’t say anything doesn’t mean he’s okay with it! he’s kind far too kind to even show when he’s uncomfortable and when the company doesn’t protect them properly, of course he might stay silent but that does NOT mean he’s comfortable with or consenting to your behavior respect his boundaries and this person needs to get blacklisted
Algunas piensan que por tener interacciones con los chicos se creen con el derecho de poder tocarlos o besarlos sin su consentimiento
Ustedes saben que Hyunjin daría todo por Stay y por el amor que nos tiene aguanta estupideces que muchas le hacen o le dicen..
Me parece delirante y preocupante el que no entiendan:
✔️ Los límites de de ser fans y el acoso sexual: tocar, besar, etc, ES ACOSO
✔️Que piensen realmente que los chicos las observan no como fans, de verdad creen que sus vidas son un FanFiction, salgan a tocar pasto.
Ni Hyunjin, ni ningún otro miembro está coqueteando contigo, es parte de su trabajo hacerte creer que eres protagonista de Wattpad
CONOZCAN SUS LÍMITES, no tienes porque besar, ni tocar a alguien que NO CONOCES
Respecting Personal Boundaries
@/brunajeeh on threads and Instagram
Regardless of the intention behind the gesture, kissing someone’s hand without clear consent crosses a personal boundary, and it is not acceptable to justify it simply because the interaction continued afterward.
In her response, she stated that she “just kissed his hand goodbye” and argued that she “didn’t cross any boundaries” because he later came near her, took a picture with her, and spoke to her several times. However, none of those things retroactively make unwanted physical contact acceptable or prove that the contact was consented to.
Someone continuing to be polite, taking a photo, or interacting afterward does not automatically mean they were comfortable with every previous interaction. Personal boundaries should be respected regardless of what happens afterward.
Intentions do not erase boundaries. Affection or a goodbye gesture is not a justification for physical contact without clear consent. Idols are people, not objects, and their personal space deserves the same respect as anyone else’s.
I need someone from Div1 to actually do their research and ban this person from attending any events from now on but OH wait they won't do it since they make money off idiots like this one
현진이가 손 빼려고 했을때 계속 잡고 끌어 당기고 동의 없이 손등에 키스하고? 당신이 한 짓이 성추행이야. 한국에서 그건 범죄고. 거절하지 않았다고? 그럼 그 상황에서 현진이가 당신 얼굴이라도 내리치게? 현진이 뭘 할 수 있었겠어. 정말 역겨워. 네 바람대로 JYP에 신고할게.
What you did was wrong, and you need to accept that. You don’t get to justify it just because Hyunjin came back, talked to you, and took a picture with you. That does NOT mean he was okay with what you did.
He was being kind and professional. They are practically trained to handle situations like this and remain polite with fans. Don’t confuse kindness with consent.
What you did was a serious violation of his boundaries. He is someone you don’t know personally, and he doesn’t know you. You cannot just touch someone or cross a boundary because you’re a fan and then use their kindness afterward as proof that it was okay.
Honestly, I can’t believe you’re a grown woman and still don’t understand why this was wrong. You need to take accountability instead of looking for excuses.
Hyunjin has said he isn't comfortable with skinship even from the members. He cringes when they kiss or try to kiss him in those relay but sure, he liked it when a total stranger with egoism kissed his hand because he didn't shove her away or say no. Do you hear yourself??
Que asco lo del vídeo de HJ, ¿lo peor? Que por culpa de esa enferma van a seguir encasillando a las fans de latam en un terrible concepto. Igual todos esos malditos eventos están llenos de puras locas.
Cómo le vas a dar un beso en la mano a una persona que no te conoce y decir 'no sobrepase ningún límite' 💀 imagínate saludar a un desconocido y que te haga eso...los idols no te conocen, no se sienten cómodos con demostraciones de afecto físicas de una extraña por más que no te lo puedan hacer saber explícitamente porque están trabajando (y no deberían tener que explicarte por qué está mal que hagas eso, sos adulta, es sentido común)