One can be such things as a man without sacrificing masculinity. You left that out or pretended it was a mutually exclusive thing.
However, to be masculine, you need to be firm, resourceful, stable, leading, setting the goals and boundaries. Then it can work.
And it requires an economy where the men are actually able to live and work and earn the money in the same area as their family lives. Stop importing infinite social security receivers so the wages don't go down more and the housing costs don't go up more.
And accept that some men will always need to work outside the region where their family lives. Someone still has to steer the trains, trucks, aircraft, or work on oil rigs, special construction, or be stationed in areas to defend the country. If you make that impossible for men, by refusing them families so no man does it and no son sees it as a role model, the country fails spectacularly.
@Ilerioluwakiye_ Women have the same attraction issue with men for doing feminine roles as men have with women doing male roles.
We absolutely hate hate hate boss babes with a burning passion. We don't want a manly type as partners. We're heterosexual men, so we want feminine partners.
@GiffLasta All these anti-patriarchy types then go to the polls and vote as hard left as they can to import a quadrillion of the most patriarchal men on the planet into their hometown.
Women do want patriarchy, just not patriarchy by white men. Which is what the media told them to want.
@mhdksafa I don't dislike the things but the people. I don't need to live in a melting pot where no culture and no rules apply to enjoy trade and friendship with other cultures.
I have many friends that I like a lot. None of them I could live with in my home for longer.
@PlisskenPatriot Remember that the same women who feel pressured by the decisions of what they want to eat today, a very inconsequential decision, are expected to vote in elections determining what they might want 3-5 years into the future in the most consequential decision they make.
@BradW13334@SamaHoole On average, because children died early often, women died in childbirth and men died on the hunt or in fights or from infection after simple injuries.
Sanitation, antibiotics and some vaccines made 90% of our life expectancy.
@DoMil123@SamaHoole Sanitation is only necessary if people are living in cities.
And we have this now. The factory settings as described do not require sitting or living near filth all the time.
"as if women had no agency".
That's a good one. I've known a few who had agency, I think. But it wasn't many of them, true.
Remember this technique only works for the two thirds of cases where the reason for the dead bedroom is an emasculated man. The other third is tokophobia, the crippling, unreasonable, all-consuming fear of pregnancy. If you find a way around that without giving up the chance of having kids soon, let me know.
Boomers yes, but boomers aren't the main parent generation anymore. You're right, boomers started this thing with believing the TV, believing the "we won the war" and the bigger myths that seemed to make the media people somehow correct in everything. The "happy wife, happy life" idea that turned marriage into servitude. The "number goes up means everything is good" lie and so many more.
But the dads TODAY are handing their daughters over to feminism, hypergamy and the OF / body count / alpha widow / boss babe / late settling / cat lady trajectory.
You can find the most right-wing, most aware, most vocal against feminism of all men in the vicinity and the moment their daughters are born, they make an exception to anything and everything for them. They can cite a million statistics about the birth rate and women's rights / women's education before becoming a dad, but when their daughter is born and growing, they jettison all of that without a second thought. They personally drive their daughters to the doc to get the pill, the morning after pill, the abortion. They hand them their smartphones way too early with no protection against the social media perverts in place. They drive them to college, literally sacrificing their daughters to the horde and the indoctrination, knowing full well they leave their little princess there on the doorstep and she will come back used, indoctrinated, blue haired, bossy and combative. The dads do this every year. And all of them lose their daughters to the machine. None of them warns the others or none of the others heed the warnings.
@Cernovich Absolutely correct.
Fell into this trap myself and it's now my biggest regret.
Being a father is so much better than the propaganda told me it would be. Yes, I have to make some compromises and wake up early.
But now I have a reason to do all of that.
@PeterSweden7 Difficult to say unless one knows all of them, but I think Poland would be a good candidate to evaluate. Czech Republic probably an alternative, but it's a lot poorer than Poland.
Dating for women is ridiculously easy. Getting commitment from men is hard for women.
Every woman who has a pulse can, with a bit of luck, have sex with, I mean "date " a rockstar. If the level of men she can "date", ie "lay", is the new benchmark, she will always be "settling"
You should really research into the respective ranking systems that men and women subconsciously and probably wired biologically use. "Men will bonk everything" is a bit of an exaggeration, but it's also quite close to the truth. Especially the high test top 1% men will only be limited by their schedules more than their "refined tastes". If the schedule allows and there's no 10/10 model to bang right then and there, every woman with a pulse will be okay enough for them to just dump their semen into. It sounds drastic, but that is what's happening. And it's quite similar to most men who aren't in happy relationships. For a quick bang, every woman is okay.
And women often think that this is the level of men they are now deserving of, which never happens in the end. Only "situationships" or more deposits, but nothing more.
Where do we find such women in the real world? Like in "take all the resources you need (not for luxuries, though) and have as many children as medicine, nature and chance allows and give those resources to them so they can all grow up happy and healthy"
That is how nature intended it to be and it's so damn satisfying. It gives us men something worth protecting and working for and women can do the magic that no one and nothing else can.
Also, several children are much easier to raise than one. Other toddlers can match toddler energy easily. Parents have more difficulty with that.
@jess_ann_pin@Schtal2 Correct. And that's how it should be. The real world is always upsetting in some way and every way to cope with that is good if it doesn't hurt others.
Couples having make-up sex after an argument grow stronger through that.
She's been filled with several liters of ejaculate. Exposed to 60+ guys and their sexual history concerning transmissible diseases. As they're all Chads probably, each of them has 100+ body counts too, with other 60+ body count depositories.
Having sex with such a person means exposure to 1 million sexual partners.