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Also, the online stereotype tends to be
male Dom / female sub
or female Domme / male sub.
What we rarely talk about are M/m dynamics, intimacy between men, or the fact many men have been socially conditioned to believe that anything beyond a fist bump and passing a pint across the bar somehow makes them “less.”
What it has created instead are generations of men who struggle with intimacy physically, emotionally, mentally, personally.
And BDSM or kink isn’t always about “getting off.”
A lot of the time it’s about connection.
Trust. Being witnessed. Being allowed to stop performing for five minutes.
Despite the internet rhetoric, men are not fundamentally different from women in their need for closeness, affection, reassurance, touch, intimacy, or emotional safety.
“Being held” is not always physical.
Sometimes it’s finally being allowed to exist somewhere without armour on.
And I think a lot of men are realising the old single-track script get a wife, make her your therapist, mother, sex worker,
laundromat, emotional support system, and sole source of intimacy… isn’t working.
Human beings need community. Friendship. Touch. Ritual. Witnessing.
A village.
#032 - Roommate Situation
These little arguments settle faster and faster every time, don't they?
See my next comic #033 two weeks early at https://t.co/DHKnwTffZH 👀