THAT DOESN'T change the fact na umalis ka without my permission and without respecting my feelings. THAT DOESN'T change the fact you lied. Dun palang sa magbar while you are in a relationship IS A BIG RED FLAG FOR ME.
At the end of the day, if someone cares about you, they care about how their actions impact you and make you feel. that's all you need to know about people if you want them in your life.