Topping Notes: This side position can be more difficult than others to adjust to, because the changes in angle with each thrust are at a perpendicular axis to what @TattedAsianBoi has gotten used to accommodating. My hips can go side to side, of course, but the thrusting movement changes the elevation I'm pushing from, which means that for *him* I'm pushing on the left and right sides of his rectum instead of the front and back like he's gotten used to. Being internally stretched in an unfamiliar direction like that can raise anxiety as he suddenly finds himself confronting feelings he has much less experience with - so in this position it is extra important to provide grounding contact to reassure him. Here I immediately spread my hand around the back of his neck and slide it up over his jaw, side of his face, into his hair. I very intentionally covered his ear because now my touch is entirely shifting one of his senses into a context of being covered and shielded. My fingers are spread wide to maximize surface covered, and I'm pressinh down on his head just a bit - not to overbear him (yet) but to make him feel held in place in a way that demonstrates my control over my body as well as his. To do that, I'm keeping my weight in my knees (not using my hand on his head as support) and he can feel that the pressure on him is gauged with care, which helps him feel secure enough to navigate these sensations.
There is some deep want that a top carries inside him, for his cock to be the subject of obsession. Boys who understand how to cater to this desire make themselves irresistable.
So, boys, let me help you understand. We want your hands to wander, almost without your awareness. Your goal isn't to make it hard - at least not at first. You just miss it and want to touch it. Want to remind yourself that you have the privilege of access. Want to feel it's shape in your hand. Or press your face against it. Or lean down spontaneously to take it into your mouth. Whatever you think you can get away with at any given moment - and lean into the edges of what you are allowed. And once you've started touching it, especially once it starts to respond, you don't let go of it unless the man tells you to. And even then, ask permission for some lesser form of connection to it.
You see, everyone likes to be chased, even big strong dominant men who like to chase our prey - we just want our dicks to be your quarry and our semen your desired meal. And we want you to lose yourself in your insatiable hunger for it. That hunger should motivate you to be bold, AND to be clever in your approach.
Understand the specific organ you are going after. If the dick you're obsessing over is cut like mine, you'll likely want to keep lube ready to slick your palm. Understand his own natural stroke pattern so that you can both imitate it and consciously diverge from it. For myself, I like a long, slow, gentle, sensual slide with a slight tugging at first, which VERY gradually gets tighter and faster and rougher on a very nuanced curve that follows my rising state of arousal until you're pounding my dick like you see in this clip.