Today I learned a term called “Premature Competence”: When a child is forced to become self sufficient too early because no adult is reliably meeting their needs, they develop a false maturity. In adulthood, they appear highly capable but struggle to ask for help because they never learned it was safe to need anyone.
7 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO IN FRONT OF OTHERS
1. NEVER complain about your life – people will pity you first, and discuss you later.
2. NEVER argue with loved ones in public – strangers never forget what they hear.
3. NEVER brag about your children – jealousy is quiet, but dangerous.
4. NEVER show that someone is above you – people will use it against you.
5. NEVER count your money in front of others or brag about it – eyes remember everything.
6. NEVER speak badly about others – it always comes back to you.
7. NEVER let strangers too close – not every visitor wishes you well.
Y’all gather on in here now.
Up here in these Appalachian mountains, there’s an old sayin' that don’t make much sense till life knocks you low enough to understand it.
“They got better to die.”
Now that sounds backward, don’t it?
But mountain folks know exactly what it means.
It means somebody’s been lying sick for a long spell. Maybe they ain’t ate much. Maybe they ain’t talked much. Maybe the family has been sitting beside the bed, listening to every breath like it might be the last one.
Then one morning, they wake up different.
Their eyes look clearer.
They ask for a bite of soup beans or a little cornbread crumbled in milk.
They know everybody in the room.
They smile.
They might even laugh and say, “I believe I’m feelin’ some better today.”
And for just a little while, hope walks back through that door.
The family starts whispering in the kitchen.
“Maybe they’re turnin’ a corner.”
“Maybe the Lord ain’t ready yet.”
“Maybe we got a little more time.”
But the old ones sittin' quiet in the corner know. They’ve seen it before.
They don’t say much, because some truths are too tender to speak out loud.
They just nod slow and say, “Well, they may have got better to die.”
It ain’t cruel. It ain’t givin' up.
It’s mountain wisdom, born from years of watchin' life and death sit side by side in little houses tucked between ridges.
Sometimes, before a soul leaves this world, God gives them one last good day.
One last clear word.
One last smile.
One last squeeze of the hand.
One last chance for the family to say what needs sayin'.
I’ve heard old folks tell it like a lamp flaring bright right before the oil runs out.
And maybe that’s exactly what it is.
A little mercy.
A little goodbye.
A little window cracked open between here and glory.
So when mountain people say, “They got better to die,” they don’t mean it cold.
They mean love showed up for one more visit.
They mean the Lord gave the family one more memory to hold on to.
They mean that poor tired body had one last spark before the soul went home.
And if you’ve ever sat beside a bed and watched somebody you love get peaceful all at once, you know.
Sometimes better don’t mean staying.
Sometimes better means they’re almost home.
~banjo~
Connect with life. Simply try to do so on an intuitive level.
You are part of something greater than yourself. You are connected to the natural order of the world and the balance that flows through all of life.
Trust your intuition.
A positive mindset and a cheerful spirit are among the most important keys to success.
Do not allow gloomy and discouraging thoughts to take control of your mind. When they arise, try to replace them with hope, gratitude, and kindness. Everything you experience can become a lesson and an opportunity for growth.
Your future is shaped largely by your own choices, so do not let fear lead you away from your path. If challenges seem impossible to overcome, remember that they often reveal strengths you did not know you possessed.
Every challenge carries the possibility of growth. The greater the obstacle, the greater the opportunity to develop courage, wisdom, and inner maturity.
Unknown
@OnlyFaithOverFear
TIME TO MOVE FORWARD
It's time to move forward with full power and confidence. Any resistance, confusion, anxiety or overanalysing needs to be released.
Know that the new is scary but worth it. You can't control the flow of the universe, so trust where your inner calling is guiding you towards.
You're not moving alone, you're backed by your ethereal team of guides & angels.
The mind likes to exaggerate the difficulty level of everything. When you take one step at a time from moment to moment, you're allowing everything to happen effortlessly.
Truth is a high vibration - it connects with love & integrity and the highest virtues of Spirit. It connects with the true Source, Cosmic Trinity and our pre-fall origins and consciousness. Anything less than truth, produces arrogance, cruelty and people who are toxic and hurl insults. They aren't aligned with truth. They can't see the bigger picture. They don't understand they are being used, played, programed and inverted and what they think they know is Truth is just a weak intellectual awareness, that is still limited. Getting to the Truth means you are healing, deprograming, raising your vibration and restoring what has been hi-jacked. The dark agendas connected to creating continual War is part of a much larger Galactic picture and ancient battles that have stepped down into this lower density. The planetary gridnetwork holds echos of it and trauma imprints from former exploded planets. This is why invaders were able to come in and take advantage and successfully install reversal grid technology and create a whole system to keep us conquered and divided and in the lowest expressions of self. People need to wake the F up and quit being a reason dark agendas thrive on this Earth! It is a frequency War, each of us is tasked with embodying the solution.
As you can see, this still hasn't happened. That's because Millions of us decided to incarnate as Humans rather than wipe out Humanity.
As we speak, there's nothing I have interest in on this planet except the ascension of Humans/Earth. I also have my own source of Bliss activated, technically (correction: literally) a person is a parasite until they activate their CSF Fluid and keep it active (maintaining its purity).
***It is the use of Nuclear Weapons that we need to Storm the World and start over*** there is only one way to live through it peacefully: Become Meditative/Calm/Still.
Do not view yourself as some insignificant being, for the universe is folded inside of you. Rather: Participate in the Calming, in the Present Moment, as much as possible each moment.
You have no idea how powerful you are, and only you can realize it from within. Nobody can tell you or force you to believe in yourself. I'm Requesting you do, and this is easiest done through Sungazing.