1. Leave your girlfriend and become single.
Relationship is not why you're broke. If you have a good partner, keep your relationship. Many of you date nonsense, that is your real problem.
2. No football, sleep 5hrs max daily.
Football is nobody's problem. What exactly should they be doing while starving themselves of sleep? Better sleep.
3. Grind for 1 year with no distractions.
What is grind? Tell them exactly what they should do and how they should do it. See mouth like grind. You think they don't know they need to make money?
4. When you’re back, the football and younger girls will be there.
When you're back from where? Did you give them direction?