I remembered when i got into a relationship newly, me and my babe dey talk 3 times a day, if we are not on call, we are texting. 2 months later there wasn’t any spark anymore, now we can stay over a week without talking and the relationship is boring
This is a worldly advice. He is spending so much time on social media and absorbing worldly advice. It should not be coming from the pulpit. There is nothing wrong with being nice. Niceness is not a defect in character. People taking advantage of people's kindness is a worldly behaviour and advising people in church to stop being kind is not Christianly.
He should be telling the women in his church to be grateful for kindnesses and be kind themselve. He should also teach them to reciprocate kind gestures, while teaching them the folly of ingratitude. He should teach the men to be kind and if anyone should take them for granted for being kind, they should dust their feet off that person. We can't be bringing worldly advice into the church. Why are Pastors afraid to advise women snd tell them the truth?
If you frame kindness as niceness just to pass a worldly message, you're deceiving yourself. It is one and the same thing. Potato Potahto. Please don't tell me he said "dont be nice" not "don't be kind." We all know they mean he same thing. The resulting consequences would be a lack of kindness. You don't tell people not to be nice and still expect them to be kind. Kindness means to be considerate of others. Niceness means to be courteous and pleasant. What is the difference?
You cannot put a piece of live coal on a child's palm and ask him to carry it with care.
- Chinua Achebe
And be ye kind one to another, and tenderhearted.
- Eph 4:32
See, if you are in a relationship, you have no business talking to any other person. Just focus on your person.
Don’t be hurting people up and down. It’s not nice 🤦🏾♂️
Well, the woman that sold food at a time in my area came in broad day light to pack her tortoise from her shop because she was moving.
'Na food I dey sell, I no kill person' (her words)
Hey guys, if you know anyone trying to relocate to Lagos ( NYSC), and needs a PPA (with accommodation) please reach out to me, I have a slot, preferably corp members in the medical field.
1. You want a flat stomach, defined abs and round glutes
But you’re treating all three goals as if they require the same approach
They don’t
Let’s break down what you actually need to do, because some of the things keeping you stuck might be the exact things you think are helping you
A thread 🧵
The absurdity of MFM started to click for me as a child, when they started holding special prayer services on dates such as 6/6/6, 7/7/7, 8/8/8 and 9/9/9. Like why are we praying against DATES???? 😭😭😭😭
I’ve been seeing different hair growth advertisements on Snapchat but I need someone who has used a product and can guarantee that it works to please recommend. My edges are chopping badly, need to restore them before I turn to apari 😔