@nalhie Poukisa, daprè ou, Saeta pa livre canada? E kijan yon mayo seleksyon nasyonal k ap patisipe nan yon Mondyal difisil pou jwenn konsa?
Mwen panse Saeta rate yon gwo opòtinite pou fè plis lavant.
Yo te souzestime gwosè ak fòs piblik ayisyen an, espesyalman dyaspora a.
Pandanstan, fake mayo yo deja anvayi mache a paske moun yo vle sipòte ekip la men li difisil pou yo jwenn pwodwi ofisyèl la.
I think that's the key.
Whenever I get curious, I stop feeling the need to defend myself.
Instead of looking for the perfect comeback, I start trying to understand why the other person sees things differently.
Maybe I still won't agree with them, but at least the conversation has a chance to go somewhere instead of turning into a fight.
Youn nan pi gwo siy matirite entelektyèl se kapasite pou tande yon lide ki kontrè ak pa w san w pa santi w oblije atake moun ki pote l la.
Lè yon deba vire nan jouman, minimize lòt, oswa atak pèsonèl, sa vle di nou kite emosyon pran plas agiman. Paske lè lide nou solid, nou defann yo ak rezon, men lè yo fèb, nou souvan chèche entimidasyon.
Objektif yon deba pa ta dwe pou detwi advèsè w ni pou pwouve ou pi entèlijan pasel. Li ta dwe yon rechèch kolektif pou pi byen konprann yon sijè. Chak moun antre ak yon moso verite, epi pafwa se nan konfli lide yo tout moun wè pi klè.
Aprè yon deba mwen pa oblije chanje opinyon m, men li k edem konprann pi byen poukisa ou te panse jan w panse a. Paske pwogrè pa toujou soti nan dakò, li soti nan kapasite pou konprann sa nou pa dakò avè l. Sa mande plis fòs pase joure, plis sajès pase genyen yon diskisyon, e plis kouraj pase rete fèmen nan pwòp kwayans nou yo.
@hateorlove9999 I ask myself, do I want to understand, or do I just want to win?
That question usually keeps my ego in check.
Because winning an argument is easy. Learning something from it is much harder.