Lukewarm take: we need to stop using mental health/therapy buzzwords in day to day life. Not everyone you dislike is a narcissist. Being sad doesn’t mean you’re depressed. There’s a resounding difference between being nervous and having anxiety. You’re not ADHD because you don’t like to sit still. You’re not autistic because you’re quirky. OCD doesn’t mean you’re organized. And for the love of all that is holy, not every situation that made you uncomfortable is “trauma”.
“wE cAn DisAgReE aNd StIlL bE fRiEnDs”
yeah bitch, about pizza toppings, not racism. gtfo my face. There’s a difference between preferences and prejudice.
I don’t really have nothing for people who are late & make excuses.
I can respect ppl who sayv”hey I be late & I accept whatever comes with it”
But all this “I should not have any repercussions for wasting the time of others & throwing off their schedule/nervous system” is BS