So many people these days think they can force their kinks into someone else, but Ive always preferred adapting to someone and engaging in THEIRS. It doesn’t make me less of a dom, it just makes me have more fun
I still do it, BUT ONLY WHEN THEY ASK. I need the CONSENSUAL part of CONSENSUAL NON CONSENSUAL. So if you want it, dont be afraid to ask, but don’t expect it randomly
I don’t like cnc because the idea of hurting my subs I don’t like, and it’s easy to make people uncomfortable with. I’ll do it, but they have to initiate
things I like to do as casual dominance in my daily life:
- walking into a room first
- "hold this for me"
- choosing where we sit
- "what's today's agenda?"
- telling him to move so I can pass
- expecting him to keep up with my pace
- "look at me when I'm talking to you"
I don’t like cnc because the idea of hurting my subs I don’t like, and it’s easy to make people uncomfortable with. I’ll do it, but they have to initiate
Dommes care about mental health. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
A good Domme understands that mental health matters, boundaries matter, and the person behind the screen matters.
The best dynamics are built on trust, respect, and genuine care.
I don’t respect fellow doms who don’t care about their subs well-being. It’s a two way thing! You can’t be a dom without your sub, be good to them, they are a people too, even if kink says they aren’t, treat them like one, only degrade within the agreement!