someone who has been mentally and emotionally abused will:
- constantly apologize
- need a lot of reassurance
- break down over small disagreements
- hide their feelings to not upset you
- have low self esteem because of insults
please take it easy on them.
every time a girl pretends not to care about Valentine’s Day or her birthday bc she knows she won’t get anything on the day, an angel’s wings fall off. it’s okay to care and be disappointed and sad
The obsession with control in relationships is crazy. Why would you meet someone dressed sexy then ask them to tone it down now that you are with them????????????????
“What's wrong with you lately? You seem to be checked out & not yourself.”
Me: I'm grieving a life I thought I would have, battling stuff that no one knows about, & craving a future that I don't think exists for me, so yeah I'm pretty checked out. I'm fine though.
oh no i feel bad. think im gonna isolate myself and ghost the few ppl who reach out to me and decompose in my bed and neglect my health and sleep my life away and mindlessly consume media so i dont have the capacity to think and feel. this will Surely make me feel better
my boyfriend’s rejected me every time i’ve tried to get intimate with him almost the past month i am trying to give him space and respect his boundaries but i literally cant help but feel its because he isnt attracted to me anymore and it hurts