Fahim

oni

[Fahim @FahimChoc]

hoping what we prayed for ends up working in our favor.

thanks love 💌

[Hazim Al-Sha'lami @wqoole]

Checking in on Malaysian dawah

[hdgavwgw @na_adf]

Terjumpa thread ni and it got me notice this pattern:

Kenapa bila yg perempuan meluah, berpusu pusu orang support tanpa pertikaikan apa2, walaupun tak tahu pucuk pangkal cerita

Tapi bila lelaki yang meluah, begitu ramai orang terutamanya wanita, akan salahkan lelaki tu balik?

Kesian betul i tengok lelaki zaman sekarang. You guys basically have no channel at all utk luahkan perasaan. Luah kat bini, bini salahkan suami. Luah kat socmed, dipersalahkan lagi.

At this point, banyaklah mengadu dekat Allah. Semoga berjumpa dengan pasangan2 yang baik dan boleh mendengar tanpa menyalahkan.

[Manchester United @ManUtd]

BRUNO FERNANDES. RECORD-BREAKER.

[Fahim @FahimChoc]

@ManUtd Fahim 8

[liss ¹⁰ 🐆 @lissamvp]

18 años y en vez de dejarlo pasar, lo sube a su instagram, con 40M de seguidores, que puto orgullo de chaval

[ICE COLD🥶🥶 @AwoshieRudiger1]

@coffeededo_o

[🔺meingl🔻 @meinmokhtar]

Semoga sapa sapa rasa cmni satu hari dapat jumpa ‘safe space’

[ًِ @bckupacc99]

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[Astro Arena 🇲🇾 @ASTROARENA]

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The G.O.A.T, Dato' Azizulhasni Awang cemerlang diacara 𝙢𝙚𝙣'𝙨 𝙠𝙚𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙣! 🇲🇾

Saksikan siaran langsung Piala Dunia Berbasikal Trek UCI di Astro Sport Plus, saluran 817.

#TrackCycling #TrackWC

[hdgavwgw @na_adf]

I pernah jumpa org gini. Nak tahu tak how to fix orang macamni? Yg selalu tanya benda2 kecik. Senang je, u kena stop micromanage /complain/ pertikai apa dia buat.

Mungkin punca dia jadi macam ni sbb u pernah complain kat dia “kenapa ambik bawang besar?” “Kenapa ambik yg tak elok” “U ni tak pandai pilih bawang la, tak elok” etc.

So dia akan rasa apa yg dia buat semua salah dimata u, and in the future ended up jadi apa? Jadi mcm dlm gambar kat bawah ni la. Dia akan suruh you yg buat keputusan sebab nanti you confirm takkan complain dah.

Samala macam memasak, or tolong arrangekan perabot, or bila orang tolong belikan u makanan. Kalau u banyak complain itu ini salah, ended up orang tu akan tak berminat untuk tolong u dah. Kalau tolong pun, dia akan bagi u yg buat decision, sebab dia malas nk kena judge

Kalau org tu buat silap sikit, or benda yg dia buat tu tk kena tekak you. U tutup mata and redakan je. Just nasihat softly and move on. Tak perlu ungkit, tak perlu pertikai lebih2 or pergi malukan dia dekat socmed or kawan2.

Lama2 orang tu akan adjust and learn sendiri.

U nak dorang fikir sendiri, tapi bila dorang fikir sendiri, u tak suka. Nk ikut telunjuk u jugak, lepastu penat sebab asyik jadi “decision maker”. Faham tak maksud i😅

[(fan) Trey @UTDTrey]

Generational quote

[mhmmdhsm @mhmmdhsm]

Nabi S.A.W ajarkan doa ini adalah untuk selesaikan masalah.

1) Bebanan hutang
2) Lemah semangat, gelisah jiwa dan malas
3) Rasa sedih dan takut
4) Takde keyakinan diri
5) Selalu ditindas, dipermainkan dan diperlekehkan.

Doa ni mustajab tau, cuma ramai yang tak tahu cara amal.

[Fakhri | Akan Datang: Fa Inni Qarib 2.0! @fakhrifadzli]

Saya pernah lalui fasa hidup yang rasa sempit.

Seperti orang lain, saya baca surah al-Waqi'ah untuk murah rezeki.

Tapi masa baca surah ini, saya terjumpa tiga soalan yang Allah SWT tanya dan soalan ini jadikan saya rasa tidak selesa untuk menjawabnya.

[k @alfkkifine]

The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.

[Janty @CFC_Janty]

Oh no, we are losing to Manchester City

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

You cannot aggressively demand "princess treatment" and a traditional provider man while simultaneously having the mouth, attitude, and combativeness of a fiercely independent street-fighter. Traditional men want peace and cooperation. You cannot ask a man to pay 100% of the bills and lead the household, and then constantly argue with him and challenge his decisions like you are roommates splitting the rent. You have to pick a dynamic.

[ًِ @bckupacc99]

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[ًِ @bckupacc99]

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[Harsh Hada @MasculineM7]

All women say they want a good man until they..

[k @alfkkifine]

The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings.

​The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy.
​Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain.

We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.