I'm touched by this beautiful quote;
"Waiting for something to happen should not make you sad because if Allah is making you wait, then He is preparing you for something great."
People get married and live happily with their spouses. People have respectful, kind, and supportive spouses. Do not allow bad experiences you've seen or heard to twist your thinking about marriage.
Ask Allah for a good marriage and work towards having one. Put negativity away.
Get rid of envy and jealousy. You should not harbour such feelings towards those around you for their blessings. You never know what the Almighty took away from them.
“i don't understand why everyone is so afraid of adult conversations. You don't like me ? Tell me. You don't wanna talk to me? Don't ignore me. You're mad at me? Let me know. I'm wrong? let's talk. We don't agree? Share ur viewpoints.
It's really not that hard”
Times have changed, things are hard, women need to have jobs, women need to make their own money, they have families to help too. What if the marriage goes wrong, would she be able to leave? Many women are trapped in abusive marriages cos they don't have the capacity to leave.
يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوْبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِيْ عَلَىٰ دِيْنِكَ
Yā Muqalliba-l-qulūbi thabbit qalbī ʿalā dīnik.
O Allah, Turner of hearts, make my heart firm upon Your religion.
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Yusuf عليه السلام knew that all the doors were closed. And yet, he ran towards them because he knew Allah would open them for him. If all the doors seem closed to you, keep running. For you and Yusuf عليه السلام have the same Allah.
Allah can instantly give you what your heart desires. He will unfold the plan He has written for you and it will be more beautiful than your expectations. So bear a little more. His plan is worth waiting for.