I don’t think most men want to hear this, but if you truly want a peaceful, loving, and stable relationship with a supportive, attractive woman, you need to work a lot harder than you think.
The Black intellectual man is the most misread person in his own community. Too Black for white spaces. Too articulate for street credibility. Too thoughtful for the masculine archetype. He exists in a gap that nobody built infrastructure for and navigates it mostly alone.