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Hi, I go by Maggot online! I’ve been a fan of the FD franchise since I was old enough to binge all of the films, and it developed a special interest, so I’m here to yap. Here’s my strawpage, https://t.co/iuFGr6iipq, and some more information about me in this thread!
Like don’t get me wrong MCR is like, honorary emo or whatever but they aren’t really and I don’t think they should be throwing stones from glass houses or whatever the saying is.
“being gnc as a trans person is just what cis people want… its just conforming to your birth gender…”
yeah man cis people love my chest hair and deep voice and penis because i sometimes wear a dress and put on makeup
a.) not sexual
b.) they DID ask for consent. You're literally getting mad at them for asking for consent
c.) non issue easily solved by communicating properly
if you don't like it. say it. simple as. they asked politely. return that courtesy
@IredecentR@Feiyeong67 Normally when you set boundaries you do it like “hey I don’t like when people say this to me” and not “fuck you what the fuck is wrong with you for not reading my mind that I don’t like that”
funny thing is if you ask these people to wear a mask to reduce the spread of covid, they'll start talking about how we shouldn't moralize or judge people for being imperfect
basically this website just picks a disability every couple of weeks and insists that the symptoms of these fairy complex neurological conditions are actually caused by an attitude problem or not trying hard enough & it's so lazy. read a wikipedia page or something idk
And my point is that a lot of the people who are mad at their hypothetical friends for being late are like that boss. They don't want you to get better or get support; they want you to perform and apologise, to display that you understand you are flawed.
Now may I introduce you to the other side of this coin: task paralysis.
Because ppl with ADHD know theyre prone to this, it leads to a form of anxiety that causes us to "freeze" and be hypervigilant around our obligations, in fear of forgetting, losing our jobs, upsetting others
autistic people are 16 times more likely to suffer Functional Neurological Disorder and similar conditions as a result of predisposition, but also overloading the brain and nervous system so your body just shuts down due to stress. seizures, losing ability to walk, blindness etc.
@tfpump@MaebiiX@hyper_hater@Gzalzi There are ways to accommodate for chronically late people as a therapist and it is part of their job to do so. “Don’t exhibit symptoms of the disorder I’m here to help treat��� isn’t a fucking boundary.
@tfpump@MaebiiX@hyper_hater@Gzalzi Keeping them from that care leads it to bleed out into other areas of life like the exact fucking shit yall are complaining about that started this fucking conversation