Your Family Therapist

I help people heal from abuse, trauma and build abusive-free relationships and families.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

@instablog9ja What's the goal of the interview though.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

Comment Reclaim if you would like to learn how to break free from unhealthy family patterns.

PS: Registration for just before you marry is ongoing for singles and intending couples.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

I went for post UTME in federal poly Ede, something I saw in that place really scared me about my life. The neighbor of the person I stayed with was in his finals but he was pretty much close to my host! He comes to the room always, got us stuffs, he was a lot caring.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

That’s why it is to evaluate your family patterns, review how it has affected your choices in life and heal from unhealthy family patterns before you choose a life partner. I’m creating a webinar where I will share how to heal from negative family patterns.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

because of the family dynamics at home and found his own strange, I almost tagged him daddy’s boy but that’s the way family should be. Imagine me in a relationship with that kind of guy, it would be a complete clash of experiences, expectations and interests

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

Ah! Kilode, for a grown man, I rarely saw that, I know you could speak with parent but for a guy going all lovey dovey with your Dad, I found it strange, guess what! The guy wasn’t the problem, I was, I was the one that has never experienced such because of the family dynamics

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

Now! Every time this guy gets a call from home, especially his dad, He goes like this in Yoruba- Daddy mi, E pe mi lataaro,- like my Daddy you haven’t spoken to mi today, they would talk for hours end with I Love dad.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

It’s not like i don't like Nollywood on youtube, please some scenes are unnecessary and some are too long, can we always go straight to the point. God bless NollyWood

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

I’m back, bring welcome back goodies.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

@Adedamohlarr @milanpaige83 This is so important or don't go!

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

@teebravo_ Your friend’s secrets

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

It will pain you so much o if you get married without proper premarital counseling, you will realize that you could have talked through some assumptions and expectations and aligned your beliefs and biases. Ah, it will pain you if you just think a good marriage is by providence.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

Learn to express and communicate how you feel, not every time bottle up or silent treatment, say what is wrong with you or the things that piss you off. Silence only breeds resentment and a breakdown in communication which is not good for either of you.- FT

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

There is a difference between being a good person and being a good partner, the skill set required to be a good person is different from that of being a good husband or wife.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

Be careful of people that makes you feel like their problem is always bigger than yours by invalidating your own. Different strokes for different folks. Your pain is valid and we express it differently.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

You are in a relationship and your partner is constantly belittling you, causing you to feel guilty for their aggression and making you believe that you don’t deserve any better, They may be on their way towards becoming physically violent as well. Take caution! Move!!!

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

My hubby and i were talking in the car, we drove past the security gate, which we usually do not do. My son called our attention to it; “Can you not see the man by the gate, you forgot to greet,”kids take note even when you are not aware. We went back o. If not? You will explain!

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

The Trauma and Pain is not your fault, the healing is your responsibility, your duty.
No matter what pain is holding you down
All you have to do is be ready to take a leap,
You can be restored in all the areas of life.
I'm here for you❤️

#bagofrice #dollar

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

The Trauma and Pain is not your fault, the healing is your responsibility, your duty.
No matter what pain is holding you down
All you have to do is be ready to take a leap,
You can be restored in all the areas of life.
I'm here for you❤️

#bagofrice #dollar

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

To guide you through it, people evolve so also marriage will because of the people in it, you may need to talk to someone other than family sometimes. Get a marriage mentor or coach today.

[Your Family Therapist @Fehindaniels]

About 5months into my marriage, my husband and I had a misunderstanding over a very simple thing, yet no one was going to bend for the other, days went by, and we talked but you will know the room was tensed, after a while, I called his mentor to intervene, he did speak to us.