Upcoming dates for My monthly workshops.
During the workshop I give each live attendee personalized advice on niches, platforms, and business models that would work best for their lifestyle and goals. So it’s best to choose a date where you can attend live ✨
There are limited spots available per workshop to ensure 1:1 time and there are limited discounted seats.
Grab your spot ✨
Let me be crystal clear about something.
I am tired of watching people in this community dismiss switches as “fake Dommes,” “imposters,” “weak,” or “posers.”
As a Switch, seeing that disregard, regardless of why someone switches, is disheartening. It also reveals the ignorance behind the condemnation.
I am more than willing to go toe to toe with any self-proclaimed “pure Dominant.” From what I have observed, a majority of those who claim the title on this platform have little actual understanding of what Dominance requires. With that said, thankfully, I have encountered a handful who embody it, and who respect every role in this lifestyle.
A Dominant who feels the need to put others down because of how those people determine their own needs, their “why,” and how they experience power exchange is not demonstrating Dominance. They are demonstrating insecurity. I can conclude no other logic for such behavior.
Consider this: If it is permissible to challenge a Switch on their Dominance, then would it not be equally permissible for a Switch to challenge a Dominant on theirs? While we’re at it, let’s also challenge the Dominant’s on their understanding of submission and power exchange.
This lifestyle is supposed to be about expressing ourselves outside rigid societal norms. If this is the case, how then can anyone condemn a Switch who has the self-awareness to move into the role that brings them fulfillment in that moment?
Switching is not confusion. It is range. It is competence. It is the ability to hold both the gift and the weight.
If your Dominance requires you to shrink others into boxes so you can feel valid, it was never that strong to begin with. Let them live the lifestyle in a way they enjoy, give them space to discover more of themselves, rather than trying to make them feel somehow inadequate.
I told myself I’m never working for another company again but I just never wanted to work for someone who didn’t allow me to be Me. I’ve had this job for 3 weeks and I’ve already been promoted to sales floor manager. Lmfao.
Cannabis+BDSM sounds like a good fusion. 😈
There are men who are eager just to be in your presence, just to be able to get a sniff of your scent. Men begging to kneel at your feet. Don’t settle for the bullshit whether it’s in your personal or professional life.
I started a little side quest a few weeks ago and became a budtender at one of My favorite dispensaries.
Not only is it a vibe but the free samples make it even more worth it.