calling urself a lesbian and dating a trans man is rly no different to straight men dating trans men and calling themselves straight, you're either in denial or fetishising trans men or both
trans men are men, if you are attracted to them you are attracted to men, that's okay.
my unwokest wokest take at the same time is trans men cant be lesbians and trans women cant be gay towards men because trans men are men and trans women are women
CIS WOMEN CAN BE LESBIAN
TRANS WOMEN CAN BE LESBIAN
TRANSFEMS CAN BE LESBIAN
TRANSMASCS CAN BE LESBIAN
TRANS MEN CANNOT BE LESBIAN
CIS MEN CANNOT BE LESBIAN
MEN CANNOT BE LESBIAN.