HOW TO BE SEXY AND STILL REDIRECT THEM! remember how communicating in sex is so SO important! if someone tells you to change what you’re doing during sex that should never feel embarrassing and you should never feel ashamed for asking for them to do something different! it’s redirection NOT them telling you that you’re horrible at what you’re doing. if you do not feel comfortable to redirect them or if you feel uncomfortable being redirected you should not be having sex with that person. remember to choose people who you feel comfortable sharing things with!