I share this with a heavy heart.
In mid 2022, I had an emergency and was rushed to Uniport Teaching Hospital UPTH.
I'm too traumatized to give details of the things I saw with my eyes in that emergency ward but I watched 14 people die in a space of 24 hours and their corpses carted away like it was nothing.
All those deaths were avoidable. All of it. They died from negligence, anyhowness, cross contamination, zero of medical equipments.
100 people. 1 oxygen mask. Tell me, what are your chances?
I was brought in because I was unable to breathe. My life was ebbing away. You will think I will be given oxygen or a first aid immediately to save my live but no. It was until the next day that I received any treatment at all.
Guess the treatment?
Malaria medicine.
I managed to survive till the next day then I told my sister if she doesn't take me away that I was going to die. Everybody I met when I came had all died. If you don't die from negligence, you die from cross contamination. It was only a matter of time.
Infact, I had to wait for somebody to die before I could get a stretcher to lay on.
That morning, around 6 am, a heavily pregnant woman walked in with her husband. She was bitten by a snake.
She walked into the hospital herself still agile and full of life.
But guess what?
After explaining that a snake bit her, NONE of the doctors did anything for her. They kept interrogating her one doctor to another.
To God in heaven, they kept at this till around 1 pm. No medication was administered to her all this time. I knew because she was sitted besides me all this time.
By this time, the poison had already circulated and the woman couldn't walk again. She couldn't speak again. She was not strong again. Then they put her in a wheel chair and asked her husband to go and buy handgloves and cotton wool so they can give her drip.
This woman did everything right. She came early and strong. They had 7 hours to save this woman but they didn't. Instead, they spent the time interrogating her. Asking her irrelevant questions like why she will be at a farm by 6 am while pregnant and asking her if she was sure it was not hallucination.
I'm almost certain that woman died with her pregnancy. I escaped before I could find out.
I remember another time I had an emergency and after a few hours of struggling alone, I succeeded to get a ride to the nearest clinic.
In that dire state, they told me they will not attend to me because it was their prayer time. I thought it was a joke. I was rolling on the floor begging for my life. The ladies all started to cover their hair with handkerchief and they began clapping and singing, that was when I understood they were serious.
Their prayer time was more important than saving a human life.
I can go on and on narrating what I have experienced in the hands of medical personnels in this country. Some you will not believe.
It is true that Nigerian government has failed almost beyond repair. But a failed government is one thing. The lack of ethics by these medical personnels and utter disregard for human life is another. They do not even try to hide it.
My heart is broken.
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Another day to remind you that a hoe can never be tamed.
People will say:
"As long as her husband doesn't see a problem with her dressing, what's your business?"
And my answer will be;
Did your mother dress like her in her youthful age or posted such on the internet?
Because if she did, trust me, you'll never win an argument against your friends or anyone on social media.
Let me ask you;
Do you think women who dress like that can send those pictures to their parents?
If you saw a picture of your mother dress like a whore in her prime, what will be your reaction?
As a woman, ask yourself can you wear such an outfit to church?
No sensible woman can because she knows it's inappropriate but they will not only wear it outside but have the boldness to post it online.
And since women never give themselves good advice, they'll be busy praising her in the comment section rather than telling her the truth.
You take offense when you're being called a whore but forget you'll always be judged by your dressing.
"Did her husband complain to you?"
You all have to know that anything that affects the population or have the power to influence somebody negatively is everybody's business.
My daughters will have access to the internet one day, and I have the right to condemn anything that has the ability to influence her negatively.
The problem i have with modern hoes is that they now want to enjoy or live by the principles of a hoe but the hate the tag.
You don't want to be called a hoe, yet you dress as one.
If you see a mad man on the streets, you'll know by his dressing.
If you see a lawyer, you'll know by their dressing.
If you see a doctor, you'll know by their dressing.
As a woman, always remember; you'll always be addressed based on how you dress. Nobody cares if your husband is ok with your dressing. If you dress like a whore, you'll be addressed as one.
I didn't make the rules. Nature did!
@4BLACK_PANTHER@guzu_p Ehnehn I go like know from your own perspective how you getting married to a woman from your standard which I’m sure at least dating for a year or more before getting married to her would lead to early death . Remember as a wealthy man boss !!
@guzu_p At least that would be much more peaceful rather than been married with multiple women, which I’m sure would decrease his life longevity at the long sir . I’m not saying your perspective isn’t right to you ,but that doesn’t mean every man should change his perspective sir 🙌🤍
@guzu_p To me no be robbery though , I feel every man has the power to decide and make that choice regarding whosever opinion , and to me it would save his child or children the trauma that comes with living in a polygamous home , save the man from quick death as well lowkey!
@guzu_p My king sir he depends on the type of woman wey man settle with sir,na why he dey necessary as a man make man go through screening with different type of women pick from the ones wey meetup with him standard let her bear his fruit, yawa fit sup that’s norms at least it….
Man wey don get money suppose comot mind for love
You need to understand that there’re some games you weren’t born to participate in and when you’re rich, love becomes one of those games
- Fame takes away freedom of movement
- Wealth takes away genuine love
Understand the game
When picking a wife as a man, remove emotions just like women do.
Even for a fact women are emotional by nature, when it comes to choosing a life partner, they become logical because they know love isn't enough.
They don't care about your past stories or struggles. All they care about is they want a man who's financially stable enough to take care of them and their children so why should care about her past stories?
Even though she told you she was raped or in abusive relationship, which in most cases it's a lie, how's that your business?
Don't dedicate your life to bear the trauma of another woman.
As a man, always remember that it isn't your duty to save any woman.
Kings, set your standards and never allow anyone to gaslight you.
You deserve the best!
@guzu_p Most men don’t realize that who they marry will decide thé quality of their entire life
And nothing affects that more than a woman’s past
A virgin woman isn’t pure because of ideology
She’s pure because she hasn’t been used, traumatized, imprinted and desensitized by any man.
@MengTo Would love to have more knowledge about this and as well own such skill . Please how can I get started @MengTo . Would be glad if you can pls give some guidance or advice still 🙌🤍
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