Successful relationships aren’t about two healed people coming together to have the perfect relationship.
They’re about unhealed people having the courage to show the parts of themselves they usually hide.
They’re about unhealed people learning how to ask for help, accept help, and build security.
They’re about unhealed people forgiving themselves and each other over and over again.
They're about unhealed people crying together on the kitchen floor as they repair after conflict.
They're about unhealed people learning how to leave fight or flight.
I would be celebrating 10 years of marriage today, but instead I’m going to fry taquitos and drink claws with one of my best friends. Cheers to healing 🍻
Found out my husband was cheating on me for 4 years in June🤪 kept praying this shit wasn’t my life. Went to a beach party for my best friend in August and turns out her boyfriends business partner was hot as fuck🔥 he’s everything I’ve wanted in my person🥲