I've worked hard and built a nice life for myself filled with good friends, close family, and healthy doses of sarcasm all around. My goal is to feel the same amount of joy when I look in the mirror as I feel when I look at my cat or at an empanada.
@PatriotHans @AmandaDeVotchKa The non easy part is safety, and accommodating kinks you weren't expecting like scat stuff or idk... there is a whole spectrum of different you have to try and wrap your head around when you work with strangers sexually. It's not just laying on your back for lazy men.
@theadeniran I'd be interested in why and what made her decide to keep me. I like learning my family history, including the more unpleasant bits (was she destitute, was she raped, would I have held her back from finishing college, etc.). Honestly I'd find the conversation fascinating.