my friend who's now committed for over 4 years very casually in a conversation told me, "you don't change your partner, you accept them as they are but also your partner should consciously change for you to be a better human and a lover"
i was flabbergasted.
one of the biggest takeaways from my time pretransition that i'll never forget is how so many guys i knew acted completely different when (they thought) there were no girls around, one of the worst people i knew had a whole second personality he'd whip out to look better
Lesbian and trans are top tier lgbt identities, easily S+… Bisexuals have a bad rep but are actually an easy A tier. Gay men… think about what you’ve done.