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I remember a foolish ex friend who claimed I spoke Ibibio too much…
And she’s even from Akwaibom oo😂😂, mkpo ke low self esteem..
I told her YES, Capital lettered..
Ibibio is my root, my heritage, my identity..
Right from Age 3 i understood ibibio, ‘cus my mom ensured I knew how to. Even while living in Lagos.
I could read the Edisana Nwed ke iko Efik so fluently at age 13.
Have you seen the way people look at us in awe when we speak ibibio? It’s such a magnificent language.
If i had my way, i would be typing only in Ibibio
Ubuakusen ye ndubi.
You cannot rehabilitate a person that beheads a person.
You cannot rehabilitate someone that offs people for sport.
You cannot rehabilitate someone that kidnaps and rapes children.
Peter Obi and Kwankwaso are not poor men.
They don't need to use their money to bribe voters or give them bags of rice and garri.
They should join funds together with all well-meaning Nigerians, and their party to:
1. Build a high tech central collation center and hire tech gurus to man it.
2. Pay volunteers and mobilization groups to cover for logistics.
3. Ensure that they have delegates in all 774 local governments (if possible) in Nigeria and all polling units who would live stream the results to the collation center.
4. Embark on massive grassroots awareness and campaigns across the country, especially in the remote areas of Nigeria.
5. Form an alliance with local and foreign media and alert them to any malpractices taking place.
6. Mobilize religious leaders to constantly campaign for them in the churches and mosques all over the country.
The efforts would yield very good results.
In my own little capacity, I am willing to donate N3m towards their campaign.
Whether they win or not, I'll not regret it.
End.
I was 21. NYSC posting: a village clinic in Osun. No light. No water. Just me, a matron in her 60s, and women who walked 3 hours for antenatal.
Day 1, a 16 year old girl came in bleeding and pregnant. Her 40-year old husband said, “It’s normal. First baby always hard.”
Matron took one look at me and said, “Corper, you go learn today.”
We had no ultrasound or blood bank. Just gloves, faith, and a torchlight I held with my mouth while Matron’s hands disappeared inside that child.
For 6 hours we fought. The girl was slipping. Matron prayed in Igala and English. I cried, thinking, “This is why I wanted to japa.” 😂
Then the baby’s cry came; a small, angry boy, alive. The 14-year-old whispered, “Aunty, thank you for not running.” 😭
Covered in blood and sweat, Matron said: “You think this work na for money? This work na for the girls who don’t know their own worth yet. You stay. You fight. You stubborn. Because if we no stubborn, who go be stubborn for them?”
That was 5 years ago.
Today I’m a doctor in Lagos with a clinic in Abule Egba. Every girl who comes in with “normal period pain” that’s been killing her for years reminds me of that torchlight and Matron’s hands. I get stubborn.
I’ve diagnosed 47 cases of advanced PID this year, done 12 fibroid surgeries, and caught 3 girls early before their wombs got damaged.
Ladies, my message is simple:
1. “Normal” pain that stops your school, work, or life? It’s NOT normal.
2. Your body is not “village people.” It’s biology. Test it. Scan it. Know it.
3. Be stubborn about your health. The world will call you dramatic. Be dramatic and alive.
That matron died 2 years ago, but her stubbornness lives in every girl I refuse to let die quietly.
Politics is not what I am known for.
I am an authority when it comes to relationships or marriages.
But political decisions or choices affect leadership.
And when leadership is poor, men and women are less interested in getting married and raising a family.
Or some would use it as an excuse to steal, harm others or go into fraud.
I have looked at all the presidential candidates that we have today, and I see that potential in the persons of Peter Obi and Rabiu Kwankwaso.
I won't always discuss politics because I don't like it, and it creates enemies unnecessarily.
But I have seen a high level of poverty and shock in the numbers of persons that have been begging for money to survive from close families and friends.
And I know it's because of our economy.
An economy led by President Tinubu.
I have seen wives lose their husbands in a large scale like never seen before due to insecurity.
I have seen mothers and wives decide to prostitute themselves because they have to feed their children.
I have seen parents enable their children to go into fraud and prostitution because of our harsh economy.
I cannot continue to teach people on how to maintain a healthy relationship or marriage, while their pockets cannot sustain it and their children are hungry.
I want to promote someone that gives hope to the ordinary Nigerians and has a track record.
Do not be distracted by my political posts in recent times.
I am doing it because I am concerned with our future.
The suffering is too much for a country as rich as Nigeria.
And we have leaders who do not show empathy.
Rather, they politicize the level of insecurity and massive corruption as a political witch-hunt.
Greed and quest for power is the bane.
Poverty weaponization is the catalyst.
Religion and tribe are the result.
You young Nigerians must see these things for what they are.
Your mates in countries where they have elected good politicians are getting married very early and raising their families.
But you're still begging for recharge card, doing yahoo and olosho on tik tok and IG.
This is not the life that was promised to you by these greedy politicians.
Take back your country.
End.
My greatest wish for Nigeria and Nigerians is for Peter Obi or someone like him to become our President.
Under a very free and credible election, I do not see President Tinubu defeating Peter Obi.
And he knows it.
End.
Jacob cursed Rachel… and he didn’t even realize what he was doing.
In Genesis 31, when Laban pursued Jacob over the stolen idols, Jacob responded with confidence—almost pride. He said, “Anyone you find with your gods shall not live.”
Those were not just words. That was a sentence.
What makes this moment heavy is this:
Jacob did not know that it was Rachel—the woman he loved deeply, the woman he labored 14 years for—who had taken those idols.
But heaven heard him.
And sometimes, that’s the danger.
We speak in ignorance… but our words still carry weight.
Not long after, in Genesis, Rachel dies while giving birth to Benjamin.
Coincidence? Maybe.
But spiritually, it teaches something deeper: words are not empty.
The Bible says in Proverbs 18:21 that “death and life are in the power of the tongue.”
Not just life… not just death… both.
Jacob loved Rachel, but in a moment of anger and pressure, he spoke carelessly.
And that is where many of us miss it.
We don’t curse our enemies…
We curse the people we love—unknowingly.
• In anger, we say things we don’t mean
• In frustration, we speak words we can’t take back
• In ignorance, we release what we don’t understand
And later, we wonder why things begin to die—relationships, peace, joy, even destinies.
Words are spiritual seeds.
Once released, they don’t return empty.
You can love someone deeply and still damage them with your mouth.
Jacob is proof of that.
This is why wisdom is not just knowing what to say…
It is knowing when to be silent.
Not every situation requires a reaction.
Not every accusation requires a declaration.
Sometimes, silence is protection.
Be careful of statements like:
“I’m done with you.”
“You will never succeed.”
“Nothing good will come out of this.”
They may feel like temporary expressions… but they can have lasting consequences.
Life has a way of responding to what is consistently spoken.
Instead, learn to speak with intention:
• Speak life, even when you are hurt
• Speak wisdom, even when you are angry
• Speak blessings, even when you don’t fully understand the situation
Because one careless sentence…
One emotional reaction…
One moment without control…
Can open doors you never intended to open.
Jacob loved Rachel, but his words worked against his love.
Let this be a reminder:
Before you speak, ask yourself—
“Am I building… or am I destroying?”
Because sometimes,
The greatest battles we face are not outside…
They are right on our lips.