@DavidBrandyn ATL gets scapegoated, sure, but aren’t you doing a similar disservice to it and yourself by deflecting reactions to unhealthy sex to it instead of taking ownership the same?
@DavidBrandyn Why you so off topic? Seems to me you have more important concerns than proposing ATL as poster child for a moral referendum and the attendant stigma being directed more broadly, which clearly includes yourself.