Brick_Citi_Buddha

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

Men are NOT Simple

We just been expected to compartmentalize our complexities to not add to the burdens of our loved ones

Our over generalized psyche has become an excuse to marginalize how much inquiry is necessary to get to the core of who we are as unique individuals

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

We have to stop saying

“Men are Simple Creatures”

Yes our makeup is very streamlined and does embody simplicity as a gender

But terms like this dismiss the complexity of the human experience MEN are NOTT exempt from

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

That our leadership being questioned in even the slightest ways like what route we chose to get a destination

Can cause unspoken embarrassment and insecurity

That sometimes we wake up too feeling afraid and don’t even know why

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

As well as when there’s nothing he can or should attempt

To try to shift her energy with the expectation of a result in that moment

Because sometimes our women are extremely disconnected from their own body let alone their sexual prowess

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

Every Couple should have a

“Sensuality Scale”

Thru which Women are able to quantify & directly express to their Man

how connected they are to their sexual energy in a given moment

& Men don’t have to guess or read the room to know if it’s a good time to initiate

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

And opens up the opportunity for questions & deeper dialogue that don’t stem from the feeling of rejection

Rather he gets to investigate his woman’s number and the factors that are contributing to it

Or when her sensuality can be sparked by his actions in some way

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

This one question

If Men start to ask it

with the big stuff, the small stuff & the in between

Has & can save relationships

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

4 of the SAFEST words

A Woman can hear from her Man

BEFORE he makes any significant decision

“What Do You Think?” 🤔🧐

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

When we fail to do this our women tend to shrink

& withhold future wisdom we will desperately need out of fear of being dismissed & shut down

Men often don’t mean to be as belittling as we are from sheer lack of inclusion

In our navigating our day to day life

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

Leaving us far less feminine energies to have to juggle

Spend on, give energy to, lie to, etc

When done long enough to master it we can then engage these same women

Without thirst or ulterior motives

To be able to have a innocent convo & not ask for anything more

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

Single Men

Who are actually looking for love

If you come across a beautiful woman minding her own business

But ur still Sexing multiple women

The best thing you can probably do for you & her

Is leave her alone

[Brick_Citi_Buddha @FormerFboy]

This reaction can be turned off

& recalibrated to instead see the divinity in these same women

The respect for a human being on their individual path just like us

With this shift we are able to leave women alone altogether

& simultaneously decrease our desire