Tips to abstain boredom in a long term relationship:
- donot cut back on hobbies and male friendship time
- donot spend more than 25% of your time with her in pajamas and watching Netflix
- donot forgo urgency in your personal development in fitness, finances and bigger goals
20-25 Grand months in the automotive sales took:
- telling family and girlfriends to always assume I’ll be there til the doors lock
- being the most prepared by doing word tracks and taking inventory 1 hour before everyone else arrived
- mentally owning the dealership
The less we know people the more we
take their negative comments about us seriously,
Ape brain thinks they’re less bias
Therefore more objective
Therefore more abrasive to our character more than our own opinions
Because of the perceived likelihood of it actually being true?
You gotta be a really disagreeable woman to try to argue with a man about his goals of being able to let his wife be a stay at home mom.
Feminism isn’t even helping women much less anyone else.
Saying you don’t care about what other people think is like saying you’re not scared of a fight…
let’s be real fighting is scary…
it’s whether or not you have the courage to do it anyway that counts.