real finsubs get pleasure from sending. the act of sending money and being controlled financially is what turns them on. if u need to be sexted or sent pics to get “horny” enough to send….you simply aren’t a finsub and not the type of man i would ever engage with irl or online.
this is your reminder that no matter how much money a sub offers you, if what they’re asking makes you uncomfortable or crosses your boundaries, don’t do it. you’re not obligated to do anything, and saying no doesn’t make you a bad domme. you’re the one in control here, NEVER trade your comfort for money