“Communication is key” but no one talks about how scary real communication is. It is not cute texts and long calls. It’s “here’s where you hurt me, here’s what I need, here’s what I’m afraid to say”. It’s swallowing pride, risking rejection, choosing honesty over comfort.
The ultimate status symbol isn’t money, a massive house, or a garage full of cars. It never was. It’s always been the same, how hot your wife is. Walk in with a gorgeous woman on your arm and every man in the room instantly gives you respect, regardless of your net worth.
Women like being roughed around in bed because it's
1. Dominant, which women crave as it's their energetic opposite
2. A sign of how attractive she is to him...she can feel his desire in how he grabs at her and thrusts into her. She feels beautiful and desired. This makes her "worthy."
Men like women who let themselves get roughed around in bed because it's
1. Submissive, which men crave as it's their energetic opposite
2. A sign of how attractive he is to her...she is giving herself to him. He can feel her desire in how she lets him do what he wants to her. He feels strong and in control. This makes him feel "worthy."
The #2 part still is rooted in the same feeling of being attractive/desired but expresses itself differently cuz of the #1 part.
Different sides of the same coin.
My dream date right now: dress me in a scandalous Maison Close backless dress, take me to dinner, and then I’ll take you to the most scandalous swinger’s club in the city. I promise I’ll behave… at least until midnight.