FriendlyWrenChilling

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Most dating knowledge and application so far has only solved for one issue (effectiveness vs. sustainability), but not both. FriendlyWrenChilling is the only unique dating formulation in the world that yields effective results and responsible action.

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It is true that most women are getting a ton of options, however that doesn't mean that these options are of good quality.

If I gave you 10 tons of cow shit, would you take it? This is what women are facing on a daily basis when it comes to dating.

You cannot simply equate that just because you have no options, that options are the most valuable thing.

Options are valueable, but only when you can choose between 10 tons of gold versus 1 ton of diamond. Both must be equally attractive.

As a guy your responsibility is to become a shiny gold bar. Only when you are shiny, options will come. You dont have to worry.

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If you form a relationship based on your needs, naturally once you cant fulfill your own needs you're going to look somewhere else. Most people are just so unconscious that they are just using the other as their slave to satisfy themselves.

Cheating will never be a problem if you find a relationship based on connection. That girl is literally a needle in a haystack which cannot be replaced.

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Most women are not talking to other guys, the supply of attractive men is very low. So the majority of men they talk to they wont evenm bother considering them as dating material.

Unfortunately, this might include you as well if you think that she is talking to other men, because she treats you just like the others!

If you are attractive however, you will notice. You will get special treatment.

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@realKalos Just learn how to approach women. Eventually you'll get the hang of it and women will find you attractive. Only problem is that cold approach is difficult and ego shattering, but if you want change, destroying your ego is your only option left.

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The best time to date and choose a partner is around 26 ~ 28. This is the time when people have enough experience to know what they want, and are serious enough to commit to their next opportunity.

After 35, you're seriously screwed haha. The dating pool will shrink drastically and your high value options will run out.

So mostly these single at 30s and 40s is just cope. If you're in your 20s, dont get sucked into it. It's not in your best interest, and you damn know I'm right.

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Chasing requires your hormones to act on your behalf. The first thing a person should do once they regain control of their own mind and body is to choose a relationship consciously, from their will.

Of course if you consciously choose something, it wont be fireworks. It would be peace.

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Acceptance is the basis for connection anyway. If you dont fully include someone as an extension of yourself, how are you going to deal with this person 24/7?

Everyone is a work in progress. The important thing that matters is that other people meet where you are and is willing to grow together.

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What most people mean by "healing" is just turning inwards and examining the source of the problem, which is you.

Most people can only execute their healing capabilities when something catastrophic happens to them. Why do you need disaster after disaster to become introspective?

You need not have a disaster to see the source of your problem. If you just chunk out 1 hour a day for meditative practices, then you'll easily be able to locate problems and avoid disasters.

Isn't this the more intelligent way to go about life? Preventing problems should be the priority. Don't be a bull in a china shop.

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Healing alone is your only choice anyway. The fulfilment is found from within you, not from any external circumstances. Only when you examine what is within can you find the source of your problem.

But eitherway, why cant you turn inwards in a relationship? A disaster need not happen for you to become introspective. Unless you want disaster after disaster, you better take introspection more seriously.

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Well, I think the gender war is a little stupid. You want a boyfriend and girlfriend, but you're frustrated that you can't get the relationship you want.

So instead of upgrading yourself, you start a crusade so that you can soothe your own mental insecurities. Why can't you just fix the root causes and call it a day?

I'm sure that would have been more effective in the long run.

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This is only because you have mental diarrhoea. If you have a certain level of meditative capabilities, then what is you and what is your mind is distinct when you're walking around.

You have became your mind's lapdog. If you want I can easily show you how to turn it the other way around.

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If you want your relationship to work, then you must hold the other as more important and significant than yourself.

Only from this lack of self importance, can your actions and words reflect a loving attitude.

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@Ken13360379 @IncelsCo Excuses. Just be honest and say you're afriad.

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If you want to count profit, then no relationship is suitable for you. You can keep track of your accountacy ledger in a hut hidden in the mountains.

If you dont like a person enough to shoulder their burden, then why are you with them in the first place?

Its like having a kid and then complaining that the it requires money, emotional labour and so on.

If you like women, then stop bitching about profit. You're getting into it as a choice, nobody firced you to date anyone.

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Well if you think in terms of how much you are going to profit, then it is no use for you to be in any sort of relationship. The joy is in the giving.

If you hoard everything, you might be successful, but you'll die with nothing. If I give away everything, I will have nothing, but I will die with everything.

What is superficial is the things you can perceive with your 5 senses. The fulfilment is found within where the accountant is not present.

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Women mostly evaluate you by your non verbals. Your non verbals are hard to fake, which is why women treat it as an honest signal.

You can tell women all sorts of undesirable things about yourself. But if you say it with confidence, they wont believe it and will find you even more attractive.

Its never about what you say but how you say it. How you say something reveals a lot more than the contents of your words.

So when we are looking at how we can improve someone's flirting, we first target their mindset and beliefs.

That is where you should look at too.

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Best not to judge from women who have little experience. The experienced women who gets approached a lot by men have a more realistic outlook on the dating market.

Eitherway, no woman with experience will look for materialistic features. Mostly they want confidence and good verbal skills.

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@kirawontmiss These offers are usually preyed on the poor and vulnerable. Its rather sad that people will have to resort to this for shelter. Maybe Canada should consider building some social housing.

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@ClownWorld Well its not that its a right or wrong decision, its just that you have to take responsibility for the decisions you made. Cannot complain when you chose the path yourself.