I didn't expect to be so fortunate to work for a company that treats us like family! We chose our own furniture, and the owner personally drives us to our apartments.
it’s not your fear that stops you, it’s attempting to hide your fear that’s paralyzing you. it’s okay to be afraid. fearlessness is not a prerequisite for taking aligned action.
Allie and Noah have a highly dysfunctional from the start. Noah threatens to plummet to his death off of a Ferris wheel if she won’t go on a date with him. Allie has told him no multiple times and instead of respecting her boundaries, he continues to pressure her. After they break up he writes her a letter every day (without any response) for a year, which could be considered stalking. Allie later betrays her husband by going to visit Noah without his awareness. Noah pressures her to choose him and accuses her of being a gold digger in the process. The notebook glamorizes love as possession. Conditioning us to see ‘the chase’ as exciting instead of what it actually is: unsafe.