@iamKabo and @OnealAfrica have successfully turned me into a wine guy now. Still learning all the flavours and blends but it's definitely a journey I'm keen to take. The reds are gonna take some getting used to but I'm loving the whites.
For a lot of people, the help they get comes from a suicide attempt. You have a suicide attempt and then you get admitted to a facility.
Now... Women ATTEMPT suicide more than men. Men die from suicide more than women. This is because men choose more violent means of ending their life, women choose ways that allow them to get admitted.
A man who hangs himself or puts a gun to his head has very little chance of getting help VS women who will overdose on pills and hope for the "best" after sending Goodbye messages to friends who live close by and can come and save them.
We are seeking help. We are speaking. When that stops we are more likely to jump in front of a train instead of finishing all the Panado in the house.
So... if what women are doing worked, we wouldn't have more of you reaching the point of "It must end". Men are just socialised to be more comfortable with risk-taking and violence, while women are socialised differently. This socialisation does unfortunately also decide how we choose to go.
But women with all these things you mentioned still make that choice more than men. With all the therapy, "meaningful conversations" and meds, women still make that decision more than men.
You wake up a year from now and you're in your ideal job(or doing what you've always wanted), you're with your dream girl and everyone close to you that died is alive again. Then a guy in a suit tells you it's all a simulation and you have the choice to wake up. Do you wake up?
My boy @FrostbiteBW called me to tell me gore he is a superstar ke gore o se dirile tota mmabane koo Sowa ๐คฃ๐คฃ he made grown men cry, meaning they were truly in touch with their feelings through the music ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ