Dreamsexuality is apart of the ace spectrum (it is in no way associated with the YouTuber) and is an actual sexuality. There are some aces who have sexual attraction during dreams or when daydreaming; dreams and fantasies aren’t consent and being a dreamsexual is valid.
@AceGentle Raising my child 😮💨 Completely missed the celebration and am just now catching up since I got a friend to babysit so i can have a Zaza day all to myself
@TheASystem Felt that. Raising our child has left us exhausted. Our partner has left us to fend for ourselves and we just recently got the spoons to become active again on our account after being viciously attacked by trolls
One of the source groups for some of our K-pop fictives has disbanded. It’s really hard for some of our alters to keep going as a result. Please send us your love. Thank you.
The idea that all cis women and AFABs are demisexual comes from the expectation that we are “pure” beings who never seek sex for pleasure and that sex will be a chore that we just put up with, therefore lumping anything ace in with purity culture’s idea of femininity
good morning, here’s a thread on why demisexuality is included within #thegrayarea between asexuality and not being asexual and is under the asexuality spectrum 🧵
Re sharing this for #PrideMonth. Dating aces doesn’t require ‘solutions’. Dating an ace isn’t a problem that needs solved. We are not puzzled waiting to be assembled. All relationships— romantic or otherwise — need communication and respect of one another’s boundaries.
Since it’s #PrideMonth and demisexuals are a part of the alphabet soup community I’d like to address the common misconception that demisexuality was invented as part of a role play on tumblr when in actuality it came from discussions on the @asexuality message boards in 2006 🧵
Here’s your #PrideMonth reminder that men can be asexual and women can be aromantic and neither sexual nor romantic attraction is determined solely by gender (tho the experiences can absolutely be linked)
A great thing about being aromantic is that it provides a limitless understanding of the language we can use to express love. Our orientations break down attraction in a unique way that's important for the inclusion of nuanced intimacy and its so nice to feel free in my identity