@jon_d_doe Dear @jon_d_doe I saw this when I don't have a home last 6yrs ago i declined because of you sir because I can't let someone redicule me sir I got your point sire
Sometime last month, I was sitting in my veranda.
Then my daughter came to me that she wanted to show me her assignment.
I asked her to sit on my lap and she refused.
Me: come, sit here.
Her: No daddy, let me get another chair.
I insisted, and she obliged.
When we were done, I kissed her forehead and asked her to go. As she walked away, I called her back.
Me: I asked you to sit on my lap but you refused, why?
Her: Daddy, because it's not proper for a girl to sit on a man's lap.
Me: But I am not just any man, I am your father.
Me: I agree with you, and you should not sit on any man's lap. But you should trust your father to always protect you, and he won't harm you.
Her: Okay, daddy.
I knew my wife had been giving her all those orientations, and I was very pleased with what my daughter did.
Giving me the confidence that she's becoming more self-aware at almost 13.
Another day, I was about to drive out, and I asked her to go open the gate for me.
She was putting on shorts that were revealing her thighs.
She quietly went into her room, put on a long gown and came outside to open the gate.
I observed what she did and smiled quietly but didn't say anything.
I want to let some of you married men to know that some of these things are what your wives teach your daughters when you're not there.
And you're not so self-conscious as to even recognize the efforts of your wife.
You overlook these things and still do not appreciate your wife because she's not bringing in any money, and you think that makes her a liability or that she is not contributing much to your life.
You'll know your wife's level of moral assertiveness and discernment from the way your children behave in certain situations they find themselves in.
Especially in the public.
And especially your daughters.
Everything is not about money.
When you ask a woman what she is bringing to the table, this is part of it.
Your child will not just automatically learn morals or behavioral etiquette just like that, without a self-conscious mother.
The school, movies, church or even books may not be as effective as their mother's guidance.
And when you notice these things, do not just trivialize them or act as if they're normal or expected.
Learn to draw your wife's attention to what you observed, and thank her for her efforts.
That's why you're her husband.
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A wise man may hardly marry.
And most men generally become wise when they're <35.
Many of you young men have learnt so much from me with evidence.
But what you fail to understand is that I am not teaching you to avoid women, but to know how to lead women.
Even in their imperfections.
I know that most of you have smoked igbo or are high on something, or just daft.
So this post will not make sense to you.
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A wise man may hardly marry.
And most men generally become wise when they're <35.
Many of you young men have learnt so much from me with evidence.
But what you fail to understand is that I am not teaching you to avoid women, but to know how to lead women.
Even in their imperfections.
I know that most of you have smoked igbo or are high on something, or just daft.
So this post will not make sense to you.
End.
My boss sent an email on Monday to carry out some research analysis for him and report back this Friday.
I finished the task that same Monday, using our AI tools, but waited till today to send him the report.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
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My boss sent an email on Monday to carry out some research analysis for him and report back this Friday.
I finished the task that same Monday, using our AI tools, but waited till today to send him the report.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
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