Polygamy is the 99.99% cause of family disunity and crises today.
I heard of a rich polygamous man with about 5 or 6 wives who instructed in his will how his properties and business should be shared among his children and grandchildren.
When he died, his lawyer read the will, but his kids disagreed. That is how the quarrel over the property-sharing formula began and continues today, with some of the kids being too greedy, always wanting to take the lion share.
Polygamy causes disunity, competition, suspicions and lack of trust. Without trust, how can a family stand the test of time?
Dear men, please stick to one wife. Marrying more than one can lead to many issues after you are far gone (dead).
Do polygamous families survive the test of time? Yes, but the chances are slim. It is like partners who are AS marrying: the chances of giving birth yo AS kids are very high. You would not want such risks.
My opinion though.
C'est fini.
Relate to people as they are. Do not complain too much.
If someone does not reply to your messages on time, and you have already complained, yet they refuse to change, match their energy.
If they normally respond to your chats or calls after 5 hours, respond to theirs after 24 hours. Aura for aura., energy for energy. No too much talk.
No need to break your head over how people behave. You cannot change anyone; people change when they come to their senses.
Follow this method and you will live longer without stress.
This is exactly the kind of bag (Ghana-Must-Go bag) they want President Peter Obi's wife, Margaret Obi, to start carrying instead of the Hermès bag she carries.
The ₦70,000 I paid for the MTN 5G Mifi I bought on September 3 2026, just got reversed.
@MTNNG@MTN180, how do I refund your money?
If I follow how I feel right now about my experience with your 5G Mifi, I would not return this money.
However, I am not someone known for taking what is not mine.
I just sent back to @MTNNG@MTN180 the ₦70,000 I paid for the MTN 5G mifi two weeks ago that got reversed yesterday.
Like I stated here earlier, I don't take what doesn't belong to me. I won't also withold the ₦70,000 because @MTNNG@MTN180 refused to fulfill their obligations to me and the rest of their customers.
Holding unto unforgiveness can lead to physical and mental s!ckness.
PHYSICAL HEALTH EFFECTS
- High blood pressure: Stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline raise your heart rate and blood pressure over time.
- Heart disease: Persistent strain on your cardiovascular system increases the risk of heart attacks and long-term heart damage.
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Wait a minute, I can't believe this 😳. This should be a joke. Uber has shut down operations in Nigeria? What's really going on?
Is the presence of the APC a blessing or a c¥rse to Nigerians?
@grok kindly confirm this.
WhatsApp support is the worst I've experienced.
My WhatsApp account was restricted from starting new messages days ago for a spam offense I never committed. I reached out to their support channel.
After laying out my complaints, the AI chat was unhelpful. I asked to chat with a human, but it kept saying it was the best way to assist me. I was really frustrated.
Today my WhatsApp account was temporarily blocked. I messaged support and got the same response.
This is why I like X. The moment you tell the AI you want a human, it immediately refers you. It may take some hours, but it's far better than WhatsApp.
When you pray about something and it seems to be getting worse, watch closely. There's a 70% chance God wants you to learn something from it.
You're squatting in a friend's or someone else's apartment and they're treating you badly. Even after praying, their bad treatment intensifies.
You have a manager who's a pain in the bum. You've prayed about it, yet he or she is still a pain in the bum.
Relax. God wants you to learn patience from these scenarios.
Not every bad treatment is an opportunity to quit. Some of those bad treatments are training grounds. If you quit without learning the lessons and passing that life exam, you'll keep repeating that class.
C'est fini.