My cousin never chased women.
Girls approached him at bars, parties, the gym, coffee shops constantly.
Still pulling baddie after baddie at 35 without trying.
Never heard him brag or seek validation.
Before I learned GAME, he said some shit that made everything click instantly:
To date an average 9ja girl nowadays, e be like say you don offer to adopt pikin. Na you dey feed am, buy am clothes, you don turn him papa. You go still pay rent on top.