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[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

One year since my miscarriage, forever thinking about what they would’ve been like. But forever completely thankful that I now have a healthy baby girl 🩷

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ It won’t surprise me in the slightest 😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ I dreaded the day you found out about it 😂😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Blood thinner injections are literally the bane of my existence right now, my poor stomach is so bruised from them 🫠

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

The fact I was left with untreated blood sugar levels for 3 weeks has now caused my baby to nearly double in weight is scaring me for giving birth 🥲

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Been fine this whole pregnancy and now reality is setting in because it’s looking like she’ll be here in the next 2 weeks and I’ve still a tonne of things to do 🫣

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@StephBarkley_xx @itscourtneeey_ At least you weren’t stuck on the side of the road this time because of your bus nearly going on fire 😂😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ Proud of you 👏🏼

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

40 mins into my shift and I’m ready for quitting 🙃🙃

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Hospital staff are a joke at times, rang to get an update on my dad’s surgery to be told he was still in there …. 4 hours in to a surgery which should’ve taken an hour and a half? No the hospital failed to mention he had a heart attack and that’s why he hadn’t come out yet 🙃

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Not even 10am and I’m already done with this day

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

0.5 seconds away from having a mental breakdown over my car

[Ryan Hamilton @TheRyanHamilton]

My heart is broken💔: As friends & family know, my wife was pregnant with our 2nd child, & about to begin her 2nd trimester. A few days ago she had severe pains, & bleeding, and had to go to the emergency room. There, it was discovered that our baby no longer had a heartbeat. Devastated doesn't come close to what that feels like.
Unfortunately for people like us, because of the current laws in the state of Texas, that was only the beginning of this nightmare. Jess (my wife) had an "incomplete miscarriage", and what needed to happen, what was best for HER, and her health, was to terminate the pregnancy, and get the baby out.
The doctor gave her a medication that would move this process along, and sent her home. Where, apparently we would be handling it ourselves. We were told it might take a couple of attempts before it worked.
I'll let you decide how you feel about that.
After a long, painful night of the equivalent of early labor, the baby was still with her. So, we went back to the Emergency Center to get the 2nd dose. A new doctor was on call. He was an older man. You could hear him in the hallway as he said, "I'm not giving her a pill so she can go home and have an ab*rtion!". Being well aware that our baby no longer had a heartbeat. Then, he came into the room to say, and I quote: "Considering the current stance. I'm not going to prescribe you this pill". Then, just sent us on our way.
The "CURRENT STANCE"?! Did he really just say that?!
No one should ever have to hear their wife say: "Get this dead baby out of me!".
Can you even imagine how that must feel?
The pain, and the bleeding continued. So, we decided to go to another hospital, about an hour away. There was a female doctor on call there, and we thought we might have better luck.
I should probably mention, the procedure to get the baby out is called a D & C. It's scary, & traumatizing, but sometimes necessary in situations like ours. Especially in emergency circumstances.
So we get to the next hospital. They take Jess in, ask her a bunch of questions, do a new scan... confirm that the baby is still there, with no heartbeat, and then disappear... for hours. Only to come back in and keep asking the same questions over and over. It's becoming clear that they're primary concern is NOT my wife's health. Instead, they seem to be worried about the legalities involved.
So, they decide it is not "enough of an emergency" to perform the D & C.
They do, however, prescribe another, stronger, final dose of the medication for us to try again... at home.
So, we go home to try again. Another long day/night of early labor pains. Only to discover my wife UNCONSCIOUS in the bathroom. Having to pick my wife's cold, limp body off of that bathroom floor, not sure if I was about to lose her, is something I will NEVER forget.
She had to be rushed to the hospital.
By this point she had lost so much blood, and bodily fluid, her body gave out.
They were able to stabilize her, give her the fluids she needed, and we came back home yesterday afternoon. We were also able to confirm that our baby was no longer with her.
Now, not only do we have to live with the loss of our baby... we have to live with the nightmare of what we just experienced because of political and religious beliefs. MY WIFE'S HEALTH SHOULD HAVE COME FIRST. PERIOD!
God knows what mental and emotional damage this has done.
If you consider yourself a staunch "pro-lifer" ... 1) You've never been through what we just went through, and 2) You should take a long, hard look in the mirror and reevaluate your reasons for supporting such a cold, barbaric, ignorant point of view.
It's not that black & white, and it's never going to be.
If you think your "Pray To End Ab*rtion" sign in your yard is "Christian", I suggest you revisit the teachings of Jesus and try again. If you support these laws that make ab*rtion illegal, and result in people being put through what we just were, you should be ashamed of yourself. I've never been so angry, or heartbroken... and the devastation I'm feeling must pale in comparison to what my poor wife is feeling.

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@Gemma_Louxo The last few weeks are horrible, I was so miserable with Levi I was glad to be induced early 😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Gender scan booked, this pregnancy is starting to fly by 😅

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ Don’t know whether to say that’s a good or bad thing 😂😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

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[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ @StephBarkley_xx She’s booked in for the vip package 🤪

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

@itscourtneeey_ 😂😂

[Danielle @Fxkitsdann]

Nevermind trying to get a gp appointment, trying to get a vet appointment for your injured pet is even worse 🫣