I love my mother But I don't want to be like her. I love my father. But I don't want a husband like him. I loved my childhood. But I don't want my children to grow up the way I did.
somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop. its very important that you see that journey through
when i'm mad from my perspective but i can also see their perspective so now i’m carrying double the emotional weight and being eaten away by my anger and empathy
Memory loss from deep depression and trauma doesn’t get talked about enough. People think it’s just sadness or being stuck in your head, but it goes way deeper than that. You forget conversations, names, whole chunks of your life—not because you didn’t care, but because you were in survival mode. When you’re overwhelmed and just trying to get through each day, your brain isn’t focused on making memories, it’s focused on keeping you going. And nobody really acknowledges that part. Healing isn’t just about emotions—it’s about piecing yourself back together, including parts of you that you don’t even remember losing.
I was today years old when I learned
If you feel it in your chest it's fear
If you feel it in your stomach it's intuition
If you feel it in your head it's anger
If you feel it in your muscles it's anxiety
If you feel it in your mouth it's disgust
If you feel it in your throat it's sadness
If you feel it in your face it's shame
If you feel it throughout your body it's happiness
@Big_tagg A lot of people think “working on yourself” requires isolation, but the right relationship can actually accelerate your growth. The key is communication, boundaries, and mutual respect.