You see Lazarus died for 4 days & never came back with stories about heaven π
Watchout for that neighbor who faints for 5 minutes & they have all chapters of an heaven tour!
Don't be surprised if people perceive things or behave a certain way in given situations!
We all usually act from our own reflection, experiences and attitudes.
In psychology it's called Self-perception theory (SPT)
Nothing kills a man faster than the weight of his thoughts. Dear son, stay calm. Please don't stress over things that are out of your control. Only Fix what you can.