@STHEHMCHUNU02@Ms_Logical In all respect and honesty this is Something not to be proud of. Regardless of the reasons. Life was not supposed to be that way.
Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.
People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.
There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.
Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.
We are in the trenches!!
@Ju1es24@Shadaya_Knight If that's the case. Great. Even it's lie. It's still a great lesson. This publicity thing about Mjolo ain't good. It massages your ego but draws lots of guns towards your path.
@iinfluencedyou @TheAceTyra @_Makhanya_ Same here. She is clearly no his place of rest. You can see from her responses. She is not learning from the comments but fighting the very same words of advice.
@HolyGrails50 @Dearme2_ There's a keyword there. Once u miss/overlook it. You miss the whole meaning of this post. The keyword is "Arrogant". The author is not against ambition, drive, career progress in women..