When in doubt, reevaluate the spaces people hold in your life. Sometimes you place them on high and shiny pedestals when their actions show that they have only earned a place in your life, not a major part of it.
Setting boundaries will only trigger people who either can’t set their own or those who took advantage of you not having any. It’s normal for dynamics to change once you set boundaries, that’s the point.
When you go silent and your mind wanders to places it shouldn’t but you feel a hand reach out to you pulling you to the light that is your reality…
That is a blessing I never realized I had. God, I am so lucky الحمدلله
Healing almost feels like a war with the version of yourself that coped and adapted certain reactions to traumatic events.
Rewiring your brain and processing the emotions you’re used to ignoring or suppressing are battles only you can go through & no one could understand.
When he says “I don’t play mind games” but your bestie who’s been there from the start gives you that one look and you both laugh so hard you actually choke..
Lol. A liar caught red handed will always hit different 🤌🏼