Accept people for who they are, but don't ignore who they show themselves to be. Not everyone deserves the same place in your life, and that's okay. Protecting your peace is not selfish, it's necessary.
I'm big on reciprocation. You reach out, I reach out. You're distant, I'm distant. You check on me, I check on you. You're inconsistent, I'm inconsistent. You spoil me, I'm gonna spoil you. I don't overplay my part. I deal with people exactly how they deal with me. Nothing
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People will misunderstand you, judge you and create stories about you just to feel better about how they treated you. Protect your peace and remember that not every opinion deserves your attention.
The older I get the more I realize nothing is guaranteed to stay. People, places, versions of me, all of it can change or leave without warning. So I stop clinging so tight and start living like anything I love today might just be a memory tomorrow.
i'm starting to understand and relate to those people who disappear when going through stuff, then reappear later after they've sorted themselves out. sometimes, someone just needs a break from everyone and everything and it's okay.
Youโll never find a man more stressed than a man in his 30s or 40s who thought heโd be further in life by now.
Youโre not alone brotha. Donโt give up.
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you're a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let mfers know you can go from 0-100 real quick.
Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted
Men go home to silence. No one asks how their day was, no one checks if they are okay. And still, they wake up the next day and do it all again. Thatโs being a man.
Avoid marrying a woman you cannot correct , advise or direct . Because marriage is not a playground of emotions , it is a journey that requires order, respect and wisdom
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Congratulations to Sipho Chaine โ the shot-stopper now holds the all-time PSL record for the most clean sheets in a single season after reaching an incredible 21 shutouts during the 2025/26 Betway Premiership campaign. ๐โ ๏ธ
A season of consistency.
A record written into South African football history.
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