Gideon

An enigma

[Gideon @Gideonnaj]

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[𝐅𝐈𝐅𝐀 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐂𝐀𝐅’𝐒 𝐁𝐀𝐁𝐘 𝐆𝐈𝐑𝐋⚽️❤️👑 @Iamamanoa]

The day I saw my man walk out of the house to go cool down during a misunderstanding, I knew we gon be in this ship for long. Self control!!!

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Most of you “traditional men” are nothing but walking wallets. You work like slaves, break your bodies for money, and then hand it all over to some woman who gives you nothing back. She’s not a virgin, she’ll cheat on you, and while you kill yourself working, she just eats, shops, and wastes your life away.

That’s not love. That’s robbery.

In Big 2025, only idiots still marry women who can’t support them. A smart man marries a woman who works, who brings money, who helps build a future. If she doesn’t? Fling!
Na as them send you go school, na him them send her go school.

Stop being clowns. Stop being fools for women who see you as nothing walking ATM!

I’m a very patient man. 🤝

[ESPN UK @ESPNUK]

Which striker are you taking? 👀

(h/t @CfcDae)

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

I agree.

Nobody owes their partner a responsibility pay the bills. Make everybody pay their own bill.

You don't owe your partner gifts. It is by choice.

You don't owe your partner words of affirmation. Make dem go meet their papa.

You don't owe your partner acts of service. If dem like make dem no do am by themselves

You don't owe your partner physical touch, sex, intimacy, conversation or your presence. Make everybody dey their dey.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

As a man, if your partner is maliciously refusing to have sex with you (3 months, 6 months, 1 year) like I've read countless times, I don't know what you're still doing with them. But lets even assume you want the marriage still; then play the game with her.

Cease all responsibility you have towards her and live as roommates. Let that be the last time you ever demand sex from her. Don't touch her and don't see her again. If she ever wants sex, never consent. Don't give a woman power to decide if and when you have sex. It takes two to tango. Eat outside and fuck outside (Your body, your choice). You'll be alright. Chop your money alone.

Nobody can weaponize sex against you unless you give them that power. I promise you that in a relationship with a woman, nobody hurts more from lack of desire than a woman. She dresses fine and looks pretty, but you don't see her. She dress sexy but you're not moved. She wants sex but you pay her no mind. She wants attention, but you're not there. She wants to play, but you're never in the mood. There is a couples' event invite but you re not going. Nobody has monopoly of madness!

I can never understand why you're crying a woman is hoarding sex. A woman maliciously refusing to have sex with you in marriage is not a problem and only works if she knows that you only look up to her for sex. Again, nobody can weaponize sex against you unless you give them that power. She can keep her body but I don't see how that stops you from getting fucked. You're a married man and babes will happily fuck you. Toto yapa

[Sir David Onyemaizu🦍 @SirDavidBent]

For your own good, marry a decent woman you can always be proud of.

There's no glory in having a partner whose thirst traps, nudes or tapes are littered over the internet.

This is why virginity stands for purity.

Don't mind those dumbos, they are trying to whitewash themselves.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Before you ask her out on a date, for those of you who see it necessary going on dates with these entitled little Nigerian girls, just make sure she has clothes first so she doesn't cancel the date cos you didn't buy her date clothes.

[OMO OLA @YussufOla11]

@guzu_p Slave trade ended already
Why the fuck is this girl asking me
"Can you afford me”😳

[KHAN'✨ @khanofkhans11_]

You can’t punish who has a squad depth

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

- You beg me for money, I say I don’t have or I can’t give, then i’m the one that is to be “ashamed” of myself for not giving you, I’m the one that is ‘broke’.. not you(the beggar).

- I lent you my hard-earned Money, I ask for it back when it’s time you said you’d return it, then I become the “wicked” one for even asking for my money.. not you that has refused to pay back.

I swear we need to start checking ourselves on many many levels for real.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

The best way to respond to this is to always come back home late, never hungry, never in need of sex and always happy. Always satisfied and never sharing same room with her. Lock your door when you sleep.

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

Nigerian women are the highest when it comes to watching romantic movies, yet they ain't romantic in nature. What does that tell you?

Their only interest when watching these K drama movies and series is what the men can do for their women and not what the women do in return.

After watching how soft-spoken and feminine their women are, they come out to the dating pool to tell men

"Press money or clear."

That's just to tell you that no amount of romantic movies can tame a masculine komodo dragon.

Useless sets of wild animals.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

A lot of you don’t know what it entails to love someone, you just like the idea of love

A lot of you are not humble, you just like the idea of humility

A lot of you are not good people, you just want to be seen as a good person.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Don’t be deceived, no one is too busy for the ones they truly LOVE. You aren’t just topmost on their mind. Everyone creates time for that which is most important to them.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Young men,

There is no phase in life that demands you're single. There is nothing you're grinding or hustling for that needs you to be single. In fact, the best time to find a partner is that early and broke stage.

The only reason you should be single is that, you've not found the right person or you just want to be single.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Nigerian men are the only ones who feel pressured by people they should be flinging away.

Red flag dey pressure you ke 🤦‍♂️

You don't have any value system.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

9ja women and men have done so much OS and patronised OS respectively, that we are muddling the waters between prostitution and relationship.

There is a huge difference between OS and Relationship.

I've said it many times that I do not have a problem with transactional sex. Many are selling sex from X to Snap to everyday hospitality businesses. You do not have a relationship with these people who are merely offering a service. You have to pay for the service or at least be good to them, depending on your agreement. Just keep your businesses private and respect each other without bringing it to the public to dent your images.

Relationship is different. It is the coming together of 2 people to build a home and a future together through sworn commitment and love in every season of life. It is not an adoption agency. Both of you are bringing 100% of yourselves to prioritize the relationship. You cannot be in a relationship and be paying for sex or commitment. Has your lives been whorerified that bad?

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

"You know these days, you need money to be in a relationship."

There is no era you need financial stability to be in a relationship. Relationship is about love, not money. Also, there is no era in which you won't come across women who only want to date men with money. Some women are in relationship for what they can get, not love. That should not be your business. We all acceet the love we think we deserve.

Growing up in Nigeria already means that most people don't know what love is. If you're coming across women who only vet you for money or who only want to be spent on, how does that concern you? Leave them alone and keep vetting for who actually loves you and wants a life with you in it.

The reason you think you need money to be in a relationship and get triggered that women are looking for money, is because you have an ego complex even though you don't have money. You are the one who want to spend money on women to buy a relationship, sustain a relationship and 'feel like a man'(whatever the fuck that means).
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This is the problem with you people here. You like a woman but when you get closer, you see that she only wants a man with money. Instead of leaving her to vet other people because she is not right for you, you get angry and conclude that women only want men with money. Now, you're desperate to make money to get her or any other woman you like. You're the mumu.

You are not looking for the right woman. You are looking for the woman you like and want to get her at all cost. You are your own problem.

[Sir David Onyemaizu🦍 @SirDavidBent]

Most women will sexualize themselves & turn around to blame you for pricing them.

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Even as a student, I never felt the need to set love aside just to focus on my studies. So why should I abandon love now that I’m working, simply to focus on my career?

I’m not sure who began this unhealthy narrative that being focused and being in love can’t coexist harmoniously. There’s no way you can lead a fulfilled life without a holistic approach to life.
Your hustle, your family/love life and your health are all very important. Don’t focus on one while others suffer.

With all the amount of focus you’ve given money how much do you have now?

You will lose out on money, still lose out on love.

E ma jiya ku ni se.