One day, it won’t hurt the way it does today. You’ll breathe a little easier, find your footing again, and feel at peace. Give yourself time.
“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” Psalm 30:5
Our joy is coming!!!!!
No vex. It could be that she said it out of anger. Pls forgive her. I was on space last week Saturday when men were talking about marriage and they said the first 5 years in marriage is always full of banter and regrets. You sef go wan regrets why u marry...
You should have worn it and sleep na.
If I buy anything new, I always wear it immediately. I bought new bra yesterday and I wore it and sleep.
Everyday is a special day for me.
I bought a new shoe days ago. I've not been sleeping early because I'll fit them at night and be walking around my house. Now, instead of me to go and sleep, I'm fitting them again and walking around the room, smiling. Excitement wan finish me. 🤣🤣
There is so much life happening between where you are and where you want to be.
Don’t miss it because you’re too busy waiting for the finish line.
There will always be another goal, another target, another milestone.
If you keep waiting to arrive before you allow yourself to enjoy life, you may spend your whole life waiting.
“I’m seeing a high-ranking politician in this nation. His time is up. I’m seeing him going. I’m seeing people gather to bury the person.”
— Apostle Joshua Selman
If money wasn’t a problem, would you rather get married young and build your life together from the beginning, or still wait until you’re in your 30s before settling down?
WHY A MAN MUST LOOK AT HIS FIANCÉE'S MOTHER BEFORE HE CHOOSES A WIFE:
Young man,
Before you marry a woman, don't just study her beauty.
Study her mother.
There is a reason our fathers paid attention to the women in a family long before they approved a marriage.
Experience taught them what romance could not.
Many people think marriage is the union of two individuals.
It is not.
Marriage is the meeting point of values, habits, beliefs, temperaments, and family cultures.
You are not only marrying a woman.
You are marrying the environment that shaped her.
Now, I am not saying every daughter becomes her mother.
No.
But every daughter carries traces of the woman who raised her.
Some traces are visible immediately.
Others emerge years into marriage.
Observe how her mother speaks to her husband.
Observe how she handles disagreements.
Observe how she responds to stress.
Observe her attitude toward respect, responsibility, and accountability.
Because when life becomes difficult, people often return to what they learned at home.
A beautiful face can hide an unhealthy family culture.
Many men investigate a woman's past but never investigate the home that produced her.
That is like inspecting a fruit while ignoring the tree.
The tree matters.
When you visit her family, don't focus on how they treat guests.
Anybody can perform for visitors.
Pay attention to what happens when everyone becomes comfortable.
That is where truth lives.
Watch the women she admires.
Watch the women she imitates.
Watch the women she constantly defends.
People naturally move toward the examples they celebrate.
Look at her mother's relationship with accountability.
Some people are never wrong.
Nothing is ever their fault.
Everyone else becomes the problem.
A child raised in such an environment may unconsciously adopt the same habits.
Observe her mother's attitude toward money.
Some families see money as a tool to build.
Others see it as a weapon to control.
Marriage eventually reveals which culture a person comes from.
Another thing.
Watch how her mother treats people beneath her social status.
The waiter.
The cleaner.
The security guard.
The struggling relative.
Character is often hidden from equals but exposed toward subordinates.
A wise man doesn't only ask:
"Do I love her?"
He also asks:
"What kind of environment produced her thinking?"
Because love can make a man blind.
Marriage has a way of restoring sight.
The purpose of studying her mother is not to judge or condemn.
It is to understand.
You are looking for patterns.
You are looking for strengths, weaknesses, values, and family culture.
Because every family passes something down.
Some pass down wisdom.
Some pass down discipline.
Some pass down loyalty.
Some pass down emotional stability.
Some pass down chaos.
The inheritance is not always financial.
And before anyone gets offended, the same principle applies in reverse.
A woman should also study the father of the man she intends to get married to.
Many sons eventually reveal the lessons they absorbed from the men they watched growing up.
Marriage is not won by finding a perfect spouse.
There are none.
Marriage is won by understanding the patterns attached to the person you choose.
A blind man marries an individual.
A wise man studies the lineage.
So before you choose a wife, don't only ask about beauty, education, or compatibility.
Ask yourself:
"What kind of woman raised this woman?"
That single question has saved many people from years of regret.
The elders understood something this generation often forgets:
Courtship reveals the person. Family reveals the future.
End.
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