In order to appreciate the beauty of life, you need to accept the darkness and sadness that's also a part of it. In order to truly appreciate life, we have to see the melancholic side of it, and if we try to ignore the dark side, we'll never see the full beauty of life.
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and untrick yourself from the love that made it magical.
Choose your needs in marriage, not wants, cause they will sustain and remind you why the union was there in the first place.
The reason for so many failed marriages is in the fact that people go into the union with those they aren’t compatible with, and since the compatibility is not there, they are forced to suffer through the union, enduring through the pains, maybe because of their kids
or the criticism of people’s opinions.
If you want to cover more ground in life, it depends on the support you have around you. If you end up with a partner that does not support your cause for the better, in time, you will grow into hate for such thing
This is why ignorance is a bliss, the moment you stop being ignorant of certain things, you become guarded, maybe too guard of such thing. Then living otherwise becomes inflated and impossible.
Our awareness, arguably, is the result of our tragic flaw. Reasoning, emotions and various understanding contribute to our existential dread. The more you know things, the more your suffering shall be.
Making your world smaller won’t make it any kinder, and making it bigger won’t make it any easier. You can’t outrun chaos by hiding, and you can’t control it by taking up more space. The world will be what it is—unruly, unpredictable.
And it is sad that most persons that preach about empathy are those who are ridiculously wicked, hiding their actions behind the crusade of their words.
The thing about empathy is whether you choose to be empathetic or not, it doesn’t excuse the fact you will be affected by its reward or consequences. Most people have not yet evolved to understand empathy not as a word but as a movement that leads to our understanding as humans.
The danger isn’t just in not knowing—it’s in believing there’s nothing left to learn. And when you think you already know everything, you stop moving, stop growing. You become stuck, not because you can’t change, but because you’ve chosen not to.
People wear borrowed identities like secondhand coats, convinced they fit. They mistake loud opinions for wisdom, confidence for knowledge. But ignorance dressed as certainty is still ignorance.
Do not mistake your desire to protect an egg that you forget its delicate nature and easy susceptibility to break. Don’t think you can always police what you love; one day it will grow, fly away and never return.
In protecting what needs to be protected, don’t become blind to what you might lose. Hold wisely—even the best defense can lead to loss if you’re not careful.
Be careful when protecting so it doesn’t slip out of your hands, not because you let go, but because you didn’t give room for it to stay. Even the strongest walls can become traps when it restricts movement.
The world is not evil in ways unfamiliar to you. You call it rotten, but you have tasted its ruin and longed for its power. You despise the hands that take without remorse, yet in the quietness of your heart, you wish goodness carried the same weight, the same force.
You want justice, but not the slow, patient kind. You want goodness to strike like a storm, to seize and shape the world with the same certainty as cruelty. But goodness hesitates. It questions itself. And that is why it often loses.
But real achievement isn’t just about speed; it’s about resilience, understanding, and the ability to withstand the weight of what you’ve built.
Pace yourself. Grow deep before you rise high.
“A tree without depth is useless before any wind.” —The Soul Doctor
Success that comes too easily can be deceiving. When the climb is too short, the ground feels too far away, and the fall—when it comes—is always unexpected.
True success isn’t just about reaching the top—it’s about having the wisdom to stay there.
When success comes too quickly, it’s easy to mistake luck for skill, to believe the wind will always be at your back.