When you can find your way back into to the world, when you can shut out the relentless chatter and see the world with clear eyes, push out the static and sit with it, that's when you can know both God, and yourself.
@whatever You should obey your husband, but a man also has to earn that through competency. If he isn't, then he shouldn't expect to get what he hasn't been able to prove he is worthy of.