@Composition31@BigJunieKC@SweetBabiJayy Yeah man I don’t think I take my birthday as serious as most people do. My partner and I love and respect each other. If he didn’t have time/couldn’t make time to chill for my birthday and instead got me a gift, I’m saying thank you… you know, the way my parents taught me to…
@Composition31@BigJunieKC@SweetBabiJayy Like I said it’s the thought that counts. I’d appreciate the gifts that he went out and picked for me.
When you say “✌️” does that mean he is now gone forever and I will never see him again? Lmao if not, then we’re good.
@Composition31@BigJunieKC@SweetBabiJayy People stating “it’s HIS birthday” just comes off mad childish. Some people get nothing for their birthday.
Be grateful for what you have. Period. If you don’t feel heard in your relationship, speak to them about it.
Complaining about GIFTS? I cannot agree with that.
@Composition31@BigJunieKC@SweetBabiJayy I still wouldn’t go online and bitch about him, then tell him how much his gift sucks and watch him cry for 15 minutes.
Like this is turning into a “she doesn’t listen to her man” discussion but even if that’s the case it doesn’t excuse his crap actions.
@Composition31@BigJunieKC@SweetBabiJayy I’m being very honest when I say this. I do not care about purses and jewelry. There isn’t an item more valuable to me than spending time with my man.
If I wanted shoes, jewelry or a purse I’m very capable of buying it.
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC Aw too bad. But better she saves her money and spends time with folks that enjoy her company.
Surprise trips are not for everybody. I hope he loves his new shoes! 😂
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC You’re assuming that she thought wanting shoes was dumb and went ahead with what she thought was a “better” idea
I’m saying maybe she got him shoes too lol… we don’t know
My only point is: practice gratitude & be kind to your pregnant partner, don’t add stress. Not that deep.
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC There’s a guy in the comments that said all he wanted was something simple but his girl took him on a cruise and he had a great time.
If you only ever get what you ask for in life and nothing more you could miss out on a lot.
Well I hope he gets his shoes, could treat himself.
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC Plus he’d have to go on the trip to see if she packed a gift for him.. she lowkey could have got his ass a pair of shoes to open as a gift too.
All I’m saying is go along with it. Be grateful. He even complained to her and had her crying for 15 min lol
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC But you’re now adding in a “he thinks what you want sucks”. The guy never said his girl thinks him wanting shoes sucks. He’s saying with the $ she’s spending he could get many shoes. All he cares about is getting shoes. He doesn’t care for a trip or to spend time with his girl.
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC Tbh if I wanted a video game I could go buy it. But if my man got me golf lessons cause he golfs and I don’t but with these lessons I could learn and be able to spend more time with him… that is very thoughtful. But I actually enjoy spending time with my man…
@SegaGen75720321@SweetBabiJayy@BigJunieKC I hear y’all. I’m just not a “create a wish list” type of individual. I don’t ask my S/O for specific gifts so this whole “she didn’t get me the shoes I wanted, boo hoo “ thing in general is wild to me.
I was just saying go along with it, he might actually enjoy his time.