I really wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A glowy wife. A secure wife. A Caring & obsessed wife, to a Honorable, provider, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, emotionally intelligent, God fearing husband>>
Men keep chanting "50/50" as if pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, postpartum, mental load, emotional labor, and survival are a shared invoice. IT WAS NEVER 50/50. A woman's body already paid full price. If you want equality, match her responsibility, not her rent.
As a woman, BE SELFISH. Be selfish with your time, your energy, your peace, your money, your boundaries, your ideas, your love, your standards. It’s the best thing you’ll ever do for yourself.
You want your wife to conceive children, breastfeed those children, take care of the house AND provide for half of the household income while you just provide for your half? I really don’t think yall understand how much that’s not actually50/50. It will NEVER be.
ignoring your girl's needs and still expecting a happy relationship, is like ignoring your plants that need water and still expecting a beautiful garden..!